There is an Intimate wedding add on package. I am planning on renewing my vows and we are DVC members. I was told once I had the confirmation #'s they check to make sure we have a WDW resort stay of at least 4 nights. Then we can book the add on package. I am sure if you are an AP holder you can explain why you wouldn't want there package with tickets and resort. I told them we are both DVC'ers and AP holders. Not sure if we weren't either if they would offer the add on package. FYI the Intimate wedding/vow renewal(in our case) add on package is $2350 and includes all but tickets and resort.
