A personal problem...

[ohdisco]

I know it's so weird to ask advice, but whatever.

So there's this boy at my work. He's super cute, we get along really well, and he's just the nicest person ever. I thought he liked me because he'd always ask about my life, and he'd hug me and watch me, and he asked me for a mix (and fell in love with the songs that had to do with a girl liking a boy). Mid-January I got the guts to tell him that I liked him, and he said that he was flattered, but right now wasn't a good time for him due to the fact that girlfriend's are expensive and he didn't have the money for one. He said that he loved my personality, it was just bad timing.

After that, weirdly, it wasn't awkward. We went back to our regular joking around, although sexual undertones started showing up randomly. Nothing TOO explicit or anything, but we'd never talked about stuff like that before, but after I told him it started coming up into our conversations. He continued to hug me and tell me I was his favorite and whatever. Then, on saturday, he gave me a mixtape. I asked him if it was just stuff he listened to and liked and he was like, "...I guess." and I was like, *that's odd* in my head. So I get home, and almost all the songs have to do with liking a girl (shake it by metro station, first date by blink 182, beautiful by akon, etc). I saw him today and the moment he saw me he opened his arms to have me come to him and hug him.

I don't really know what to make of the situation. My friends think he likes me, but he just doesn't want to be with anyone right now. That if he didn't like me, he wouldn't keep giving me as much attention as he gives me. I mean, I would think he just likes knowing I like him, but he's much more loving toward me than I am to him. He compliments me all the time, and I got a new haircut and he said it was "sexy", haha.

 

[BabyPiglet]

I'd definitely say he likes you! Sounds like there is a lot of flirting going on.

You should subtly hint that if you were his girlfriend he wouldn't have to buy you anything.

 

[ohdisco]

I'd definitely say he likes you! Sounds like there is a lot of flirting going on.

You should subtly hint that if you were his girlfriend he wouldn't have to buy you anything.

Seriously! I would be content just sitting at my house, cuddling and watching movies

 

[PurpleDucky]

He's into you.

 

[imabrat]

I don't know. Maybe it's just the cynic in me, but I had a guy do the same things. Well, not the mixtapes, but the flirty, the compliments, the hanging on to you, etc. It got be no where. ):

Go for your gut instinct.

 

[chisnpeke]

It appears that he likes you.

Guys are so weird and mysterious sometimes.

 

[CrazyChik]

I don't know. Maybe it's just the cynic in me, but I had a guy do the same things. Well, not the mixtapes, but the flirty, the compliments, the hanging on to you, etc. It got be no where. ):

Go for your gut instinct.

Me too Sonya well besides the mixtapes.
He was always flirting and complimenting and forever touching me (get your mind out of the gutter!). He did this for three years and everybody was like for god sake just get together but he didn't like me (I didn't like him either though xD).

I say go with your gut instinct too.

 

[KitKat_Tink]

sounds like the guy at my work.

All my friends say he likes me but i'm not sure...

We click and all but i'm not sure...

 

[ilovepoohbear]

He sounds like he is really into you

How long ago was it that you asked him? Maybe you could try again?

 

[hkrox]

I've seen this stuff before. I think he likes you.

 

[BandGeek911]

Boys can be so confusing, can't they?
I think he likes you. Stick around for him when he is ready for a girlfriend.

 

[ohdisco]

I'm starting to get confidence in what I think, haha.

Last night, aside from all the hugs and the flirting, he stood outside for 45 minutes in 50ish degree wet weather with no sweater (we're from cali so that's super cold, haha) and listened to me talk about the really bad things that have happened in my life. I told him that anyone really important and really close to me has died or f-ed me over. He was like, "Well, I would never f you over, so does that mean I'm going to die soon?"

I dunno, I'm so giddy it's ridiculous, haha. I haven't been this happy in a long time, and it's so refreshing.

 

[life of the party]

Well based on what i saw on the tyra banks show today, he's just not that into you.
No jk, i just really wanted to say that since i saw todays episode xD

I think he didnt like you at first around the time when you told him you liked him, but he has changed his mind.

I think you should just go with the flow right now, and see if he makes the first move.

Or..

Maybe he just wants to have you there, as an option.
Start talking about other guys (or make up other guys xD), ask him for advice.
See how he takes not being the only "guy of interest" in you life.

 

[ohdisco]

Well based on what i saw on the tyra banks show today, he's just not that into you.
No jk, i just really wanted to say that since i saw todays episode xD

I think he didnt like you at first around the time when you told him you liked him, but he has changed his mind.

I think you should just go with the flow right now, and see if he makes the first move.

Or..

Maybe he just wants to have you there, as an option.
Start talking about other guys (or make up other guys xD), ask him for advice.
See how he takes not being the only "guy of interest" in you life.

I'm just kinda gonna go with the flow, cause I'm not really one for playing games with people I really care about.

 

[BabyPiglet]

I'm starting to get confidence in what I think, haha.

Last night, aside from all the hugs and the flirting, he stood outside for 45 minutes in 50ish degree wet weather with no sweater (we're from cali so that's super cold, haha) and listened to me talk about the really bad things that have happened in my life. I told him that anyone really important and really close to me has died or f-ed me over. He was like, "Well, I would never f you over, so does that mean I'm going to die soon?"

I dunno, I'm so giddy it's ridiculous, haha. I haven't been this happy in a long time, and it's so refreshing.

Ohmygoodness, that is so sweet! Aww, good luck with everything. I really think he likes you, & I'm an expert at pairing up my friends and such.

Not so much luck with myself, but that's another story.

I think he didnt like you at first around the time when you told him you liked him, but he has changed his mind..

That might be a possibility! Maybe he didn't even think about 'liking' her back then, but now that she put it in his head he can't stop thinking about her.