Wow! Would you mind elaborating on how to do this....what you ask, etc.?
Sure! First, we started out by calling our insurance company. We have our cars and house insured by the same company. They couldn't give us a better rate. So, we called around and asked them to compare what we had with what they could offer us. We ended up saving a ton on the car insurance, but our house insurance went up a little. Overall, $80/month saved. It took a couple hours though.
Second, we called our cable company. We currently have Comcast and have our internet, phone, and cable tv through them. We were honest with them. Told them that we were looking to cut back and what offers were out there right now for us? The guy was AWESOME!! He helped get our bill down another $40/month. We did have to decrease our cable a bit, but these were channels I didn't even know I had!
Third, we called our cell phone company. We were still under contract on both phones, so we didn't expect them to decrease our bill at all. We just called to find out how much longer our contract was. The guy told us and asked us why. We were honest - we told him that although we liked our coverage and plan, if we could find something cheaper with another company, we'd be switching. He went over our bill with us and found that we were on a plan with 1500 minutes and we'd never used more than 750. So, he decreased that for us. He also threw in 500 free text messages! It saved us $30/month.
Fourth, the utility bills, we work on ourselves here at home. We budgeted $220 (it was the average from the year before). We talked with the kids about things that cost extra money and how we can save it. Even my 3 yo dd turns off lights and makes sure the clothes she's putting in the laundry really are dirty. It's working!!!
I hope something works for you!!