Happy upcoming Disney birthday!!!! I am actually arriving on the 24th and staying until the 29th (checkout)! Would be great to meet up. One thing that has helped me, after booking my trip, was choosing some dining experiencing and booking those ahead of time. I actually did a week calendar (with Disney decorations and all...lol), so I can plan my stay, leaving room for whim yet feeling safe in the planning. I am only doing WDW and EPCOT, with park hopper, so when one park closes early I go to the other. Part of your stay you'll notice the
Mickey-Not-So-Scary-Halloween, which closes the Magic Kingdom at 7 PM (unless you have ticket for the event, which I refused to do...again, I am an introvert. lol)
There are some restaurants I have gone to before, like Tokyo Disney in EPCOT, and one new one I am trying, the
Cinderella's Royal Table, which was scary to book both for the cost and ambiance, but since it will be dinner at 11 PM, it may be relatively quiet by then (I hope). My partner refused to go with me and since I know it is not his cup of tea, I figured either I go alone or risk not going to WDW for a long time. Life is too short, so to loosely quote from Snow White:
Hi Ho, off to Disney alone I go!