Disagree.
Like several others, perhaps it's the word "work" that makes me disagree. It has a negative connotation: It's like saying that the effort that goes into marriage is the equivalent of a chore, that it's like taking out the garbage or doing the laundry. I disagree with that.
I do agree with the person who said that perserverance matters. Sometimes, especially with kids, you're just so caught up in the day-to-day details of living and working that you have to put your spouse on the back burner. It's important to remember that he's still there and realizes that this isn't always -- it's just a busy week or two. It's a matter of sticking it out through the bad times, remembering that you've had good times and will have them again.
And I agree with commitment and compromise.
I also think that marriage is easier if you marry someone who agrees with you on spending. If one of you is a saver, while the other is a spender, that's a tough thing to overcome -- you'll constantly be squabbling. You need to marry someone who is "like you" in many other areas, but this one seems to be really important.
Like several others, perhaps it's the word "work" that makes me disagree. It has a negative connotation: It's like saying that the effort that goes into marriage is the equivalent of a chore, that it's like taking out the garbage or doing the laundry. I disagree with that.
I do agree with the person who said that perserverance matters. Sometimes, especially with kids, you're just so caught up in the day-to-day details of living and working that you have to put your spouse on the back burner. It's important to remember that he's still there and realizes that this isn't always -- it's just a busy week or two. It's a matter of sticking it out through the bad times, remembering that you've had good times and will have them again.
And I agree with commitment and compromise.
I also think that marriage is easier if you marry someone who agrees with you on spending. If one of you is a saver, while the other is a spender, that's a tough thing to overcome -- you'll constantly be squabbling. You need to marry someone who is "like you" in many other areas, but this one seems to be really important.