Thank you very much for your feedback.
Yes, it is due to a discount being offered for a queen deluxe room, but not for a king deluxe room (likely because the # of King deluxe rooms allotted for the discount are already booked)
It sounds like overall, the king deluxe is the best option. I really want to spare the $1000.. but if the view is less, and the 'romantic atmosphere' is lacking, maybe I should keep the king. I am the cheapest person on the planet and cannot believe I'm airing on the side of paying more for the King Deluxe.. but the honeymoon is a once in a lifetime trip and I really want it to be absoluely the best possible.
Any other thoughts from anyone? Am I an idiot here? lol
It's especially hard to pull this trigger having never stayed in either of these rooms (and not knowing the DVC construction / view situation)
If the issue is the king deluxe being booked at the discounted price, I would continue to check daily until you snag it.

I have done this many, many times - just keep watching the website until you see it pop up and call. People cancel all the time. Or, if the Visa discount does not show up online (I don't look for that one), call every day. The price difference is definitely worth the time.
Did you check out the photos of the two room categories on page 1 of this thread? That might help you in your decision.
We've enjoyed both rooms, but I have to admit, the octagonal deluxe king is my favorite room on Disney property.

So, I guess I would say NO, I don't think you are being an idiot.
Keep in mind, all of the octagonal rooms will have some view of the DVC construction. Due to the wrap around windows, even the 3 with a castle/fireworks view have a side view of the beach pool, DVC, Poly, etc. The rectangular king deluxe on the second floor are located over Gasparilla's, and therefore will not have any view of the construction.
It's a patented air freshener - I know someone has the info...
MOST of us here love it...
But you have to like florals I guess...
I do, I do!!

Can't get enough of the Grand smell, and I'm sensitive to strong smells in general.
I sorta kinda just ordered the dang machine yesterday.
http://www.enviroscent.com/Shop/Accscent-Machines#
I've heard that it's the Green Clover and Aloe so that's the one I ordered. It's the same scent used in the BC. Hopefully it's right-- If not guess I'll be making a few more orders to try to get the right one.
Oooh, exciting!

I've heard it is the Green Clover & Aloe, too, although I've never noticed the GF and BC lobbies smelling the same. Good luck, let us know if it is the right scent!