Random memories:
sewing masks, rewatching The Waltons on TV, making a big poster board egg for our front door for a town scavenger hunt, scrapbooking, playing online trivia on Zoom/Kahoot, taking walks and seeing people's chalk drawings, cooking more, reading a lot, being grateful to find toilet paper in stock at the store...
This happened to me as well. We canceled a Universal trip that was supposed to happen right as things were shutting down, and it definitely affected me going forward. I used to love every detail of trip planning, but I became very hesitant, as if everything felt tentative after that. I'm slowly getting better about it, though.
And my DS definitely suffered the effects of his college experience going on line. I wonder sometimes what would be different about his life now if he hadn't have come of age at that exact moment.
But I also agree with noticing things like this. People came up with some great solutions to problems and new ways to connect. Amazing art was created, communities invented new traditions, and families spent time together they wouldn't have carved out without that pause.
I personally became closer to far away family members because all of sudden it was normal to FaceTime people in for special days, to schedule weekly phone calls, etc. And as an introvert, my nervous system actually thrived on that slower pace. I learned a lot about myself during that time that I use to inform my decisions now.
Were these brights spots worth people dying for? - of course not! We would never have chosen to be hit by a global pandemic, but we were, so our only choice was to make the best of it. - To grieve as best we could, to comfort those who lost more than we did, and to acknowledge the ways we were changed by it all.
Everything that happens to us in life will have good and bad ripple effects. Some things are a huge cloud with a very hard-to-find silver lining, some things are wonderful blessings that come with unknown added stressors, and some things are a mix of good and bad. But I think one of the keys to a happy life is shining light on the good parts of whatever you're stuck with.