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[helenabear]

Barb, keep on hanging in there. I cannot imagine what this must be like for you, but I hope your guilty feelings go away very soon. Just take it a day at a time and when you get down, dream of that Polynesian vacation... should bring warmth to your heart

 

[FroggyinArk]

continueing to keep you in my prayers, Hope you continue to imprtove at suchj a remarkable rate God Bless ya

 

[pjlla]

Wow... you've been through so much lately!! I didn't realize all this... maybe I missed a previous post. My heart goes out to you. I will say a special prayer tonight for your speedy healing and for your family's wellbeing. You can get through this, but you've got to understand that these people are helping because they CARE ABOUT YOU and LOVE YOU!! And I know how hard it must be to go from a very independent person to a very Dependent one.... but remember it won't be forever. I will be thinking of you. Keep us informed of your progress. Best wishes and prayers....................Pamela

 

[tinaluis]

Hang in there!!! I'm sure it will get better and, as others have said, don't feel guilty. Your family is probably so thrilled that you're OK that they'll do anything for you. P&PD coming your way!

 

[shortbun]

I'm glad you are on a uphill as far as recovery. Your kids will
be fine, they are surrounded by people who love them and
that's what is important to kids.
Coloring and legos eh? That should be fun for your boys to
do right along with you! How about modeling clay? I had a friend
similarly recovering who made all sorts of cool things with clay.
I think someone already said, one day at a time. Sometimes five
minutes at a time-getting through them-is what is needed.
Sending you loads of good thoughts. This too shall pass.

mimi

 

[Jeanny]

Pembo~
good to see your post... do not feel guilty!! I'm sure your family is more than glad to help. Believe me, the kids understand more than you think.
Good luck and stay strong.

 

[ugadog99]

Hugs to you, Pembo! We have been thinking a lot about you. We will keep the good thoughts and prayers coming your way.

Melanie

 

[Poohbear123]

WOW, its been a long 25 days hasn't it. But, you are ALIVE and you are getting better with each day that goes on. PLEASE do NOT feel guilty, it will only make your recovery longer, I know, I have been "guilty" about things that happened in my life. More prayers and Hugs for your FULL recovery and PLEASE GO ON that vacation, make that you Goal after what you have been thru. Take care........Faith.

 

[Tiger Lily 03]

Barb, Glad to see your post here! Sending PD, positive thoughts, energy, and prayers for you and your family.

It sounds like you are making great strides in your recovery.

I can only imagine your frustration at going through this healing process and how you must feel by your “guilty feelings” post. Speaking from the “other side” (those who are helping you), I can tell you from experience of being that person who is feeling helpless while you are going through all of the healing. The people around you want to do what they can to help you through this. It is a helpless feeling all around for all involved. Please do not let it upset you. Everyone is doing what they are able and willingly for you. Let them.

Yes, it may seem overwhelming at times for you, and you may think overwhelming for those around you, but be certain to know that those who are there for you and love you would have this no other way (other than having you not have to suffer through any of this at all of course). You are here and that is what really matters!

Please concentrate on getting better and doing what it is you are able to do while those around you are doing the same.

Come here to vent, let those around you know you love them (give them a coloring book picture for the refrigerator...or other small accomplishment to show how you are making the best of things. They would love to "enjoy" this "healing" time with you.

Smile with them when you can.

Prayers your way for a fantastic recovery!

 

[kejoda]

Major hugs Pembo!!!! Ditto what the others have said about the guilt.

 

[Tuffcookie]

Barb.

And HAPPY UNBIRTHDAY!!!

TC

 

[Mimi Q]

So good to see you posting again. As far as feeling guilty, I know you would want to help your children out if they were ill. Sounds like you are making great progress. Thanks for the update.

 

[Lachesis00]

 

[Pooh67_68]

 

[Ranatra]

Pembo, I was so happy to see you post!
I've been praying for you! I can't believe all that you've been thru. Let go of the guilt. Your mother would not want you feeling that way. If my DD needed me, there is nothing in this world I wouldn't do for her. I'm sure your mother feels exactly the same way. Let her be there for you. That's what moms are for!

I will continue to pray for your recovery! I hope you get your Cedar Point trip in. Can you believe it's been almost a year already since we were all there?? What a fun weekend that was!

 

[cgcw]

It sounds like you are making good progress. I hope all continues to move forward for you.

You are very lucky, in more ways than one. Having family to help you is such a wonderful thing -- something DH & I don't have and never will. It's truly a blessing. I don't think you should feel guilty -- just very fortune to have the help that you do.

Wishing you all the best.

 

[flrose]

and prayers and wishing you continued success on your journey back to wellness. Keep the faith!

 

[Jennyfyar]

Hang in there! You seem to be recovering very quickly. You and your family continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. Just keep thinking about your birthday at the Polynesian!

 

[Pooh's Pal]

Thanks for the update.....glad to hear you're doing better!
Prayers and Pixie Dust to you and yours!

 

[AuroraluvsPhillip]

Pembo,

Nice to see you posting. As others have said, don't feel guilty about depending on others, we hate it because we're all such control freaks, but if the situation was reversed, you'd be doing the helping and comforting too!

Keep up with your PT/OT...it's frustrating but it really does help those nerves to remember what they're supposed to be doing!

Continued prayers to you for steady progress everyday!