Just the opposite here. 27 years with one Ford, 18 with another (longer if DD hadn't totaled it) , 16 with a third Ford (only got rid of it because I needed a bigger car).
We run a fleet of Explorers at work, 250,000 miles before we turn them in.
(I don't believe in those reliablity studies....so I won't mention Ford beat Honda and Toyota in the last ones....oh sorry, I slipped)
I agree with this. Just traded in a 2004 Ford E-150 for a 2007 Ford Expedition. There was nothing wrong with the E-150, it had 100K miles and would have easily gone another 100K, but we traded it in for reasons listed below.
I'd say all are good choices.
But the best choice would be to find a different (better) mechanic, get the brakes fixed properly, and keep the van you have and drive it another 100,000 miles or so.
The sales tax, higher registration and insurance and depreciation alone on any of those newer cars will be greater than several brake jobs on your current van. And of course, you could just be buying a different qwirk with a different car.
I don't agree with this. My family has a lot of experience with older, high mileage cars over the years, and it's just not worth the hassle. The longest-running was actually a Chevy Cavalier--300,000 miles and still ticking along fine when it was totaled due to frame damage from being rear-ended. But it just isn't worth it to us anymore.
We now have different requirements, since we tow a travel trailer full time. I know extended warranty/mechanical breakdown insurance is a highly controversial topic, but we have a policy on the tow vehicle with the same company that handles our RV, and it's been a godsend. The monthly cost is dirt cheap, our deductible is $100, and they cover EVERYTHING mechanical that you could possibly imagine. Anyway, when the E-150 went over 100K, it was time to start looking, since the mechanical breakdown only covers to 120K.
We also wanted a heavier duty tow vehicle so we can upgrade the RV soon, so like the OP, we had additional reasons for wanting to do a trade in. We got what we wanted with low mileage and a very fair price, and I think it was the right decision.