Hersh - We did the Eastern at the last minute back in Nov. 2002 and it was great! That was when we went to St. John and snorkeled at Trunk Bay for the first time (on our own - not an excursion). It was great (in a National Park, with a lifeguard, calm waters, underwater trail, kids loved it, etc.)! We plan on going back again this time via the ferry from Charlotte Amalie(sp?) instead of via Red Hook. This time we might try Cinnamon Bay too! As for St. Maarten we'll go back to Kakao Beach Club on Orient Bay for the 3rd time - great food, nice beach, etc.
As for the kids clubs, both of our kids simply love them! I'm sure our DD would love to meet your DS and help him feel at home. The kids activities are super and so are the counselors. They go out of their way to make the kids feel at home, especially those who might be a little unsure at first. Sometime after you board on Saturday take your DS down to visit the club and meet the counselors (and some of the kids too). That will give you a chance to walk around and look at things together. I think they open for the first evening around 7pm. Take a look at the 5-7 YO Navigators on dcltribute.com to get an idea of the activities you can get him to look forward too.
Kendall - I'll have to dig up a picture and scan it and send it to you. Thanks for your offer!
One other thing we have done with our fellow dis'ers is to try and meet each other in the terminal while we are waiting to board on Saturday am. We usually get there early and are near the front of the line. On our first trip all of us who posted wore lime green ribbons pinned on our our shirts. It worked! We met 4-5 of our fellow dis'er families. Perhaps we should consider something like this. Anyone else have an idea?