My Dh is a triplet (all boys), and they turn 30 this March! My sil's and I want to do something special for them. Should we have a family party at a hall and invite all their friends, or should we do a bar hopping thing and let them party it up, keeping it very adult oriented?
What would you do?
What would you do?

And it's only $800 a night! That's why I wanted to get other people's opinions, thought maybe I was missing something with the whole 30th thing!!!!!