DH has decided that he wants to go with us. We'll have space for him in the condo but already have 7 people and a 7 person van. Plus he will need transportation down and back. I'm excited about our upcoming trip but now feel like I'm in a lose/lose situation. If I tell DH he can't go, he won't admit it but will be upset (and the 2 year old has been asking about him going so I think the kids will miss him too, or be too excited about DW to care). If I figure out a way to make it work, cheaply, then it turns from a grandma spending time with her granddaughters trip to a grandma tagging along on a family trip. Grrrrr.....