Sorry I've been MIA since my original post. It's been a crazy busy weekend! LOVING that there will be a bunch of solo Moms traveling!
Regarding Pirate night, a LOT of people (full families) dress up, but there's a very large amount of people that don't. So you'll feel comfortable either way. We never have, just because it'd be that much more to pack, but they do sell some items in the gift shop on the ship if you don't want to pack/bring stuff from home.
About the kids clubs -- the #1 reason I booked the cruise is because of how much my kids LOVE the kids clubs. We considering a trip to WDW but there's just so much to do on the cruise (and a lot of opportunity to just relax) that I KNEW it was the best choice for us.
Something to consider if your concerned about your teen going to Aloft (if they're open to the idea) is to put them in the Oceaneer Lab. There's a LOT for the kids to do in there -- almost too much, there's so many options and that is completely supervised. They CAN self-check out if a certain age (FYI) as well. Otherwise their leaving can be managed by their parent if you so choose.
I will admit, on our first cruise, I was surprised when on Disney's island that the kids clubs don't have any bodies of water that the kids have access too (ie. either a splash zone or shallow pool; if not a shady spot on the beach) but I do understand that's probably intentional to avoid any liability issues around water safety. They do have water available for the kids to drink, and I think they also play some water related games -- they just don't take them swimming either on the ship (when in the club during the day) OR on the island (FYI).
If you are able to, head to Parrot Cay for the buffet lunch when you first board the ship. The Beach Blanket Bingo Buffet (I think it's called) up on Deck 9 is tasty and has a lot of options, but the Parrot Cay buffet is nice and less chaotic.
My kids have actually skipped the Pirate Party 3 times....they love the kids clubs THAT much! I'm hoping they'll check it out this year, it's a lot of fun!![]()
FYI.... the new changes to Castaway cay to be unveiled this summer INCLUDE a splash area in the Scuttle's Landing area! Yipppppeeee! Looking forward to seeing that in 2011!