Ok, after talking to DH yesterday, I've decided to switch my AK and Epcot days. DH specifically asked to go to AK on our first day, because every other trip we go to AK as our last park and we're always so tired he feels we don't see as much. Plus with out ADR's, the only way we'll be able to do Candelight Processional at Epcot is if we go on 12/5 (we have a 7:35pm BOG for 12/5.)
So, here's my tentative park and FP+ plan:
-My booking day is October 3.
12/2- Flight arrives at 8pm, arrive at AoA around 9:30, eat QS at the food court and go to bed early.
12/3- Arrive at AK at 7:30 for RD. Head to safari at RD, because I'm assuming I won't get an early Safari FP.
I'm going to try for a FP+ for Safari (unlikely), Kali River Rapids, and It's Tough to be a Bug. DH won't ride Expedition Everest so I'll do single rider line. Other than that we're going to eat an early QS at Y&Y or Flame Tree depending on how FP's shake out, catch the Festival of Lion King, and whatever else we decide to see. Dinoland isn't a big draw for us.
As of right now, I have a 3:45 ADR for H&V at HS, then hopefully the SW dessert party with some super cool people I know! *If* by some miracle I end up getting a 12/6 H&V ADR, I'll cancel the 3:45 ADR and we'll probably just do another QS at AK or HS, depending on how we feel the day is flowing.
12/4- MK day! Arrive for RD. Trying for 7DMT FP+ mid morning (doesn't really matter when to me the exact time), plus going to FP+ BTMRR for afternoon, and Peter Pan in the AM. On RD, go to SDFP kiosk and get SDFP for Anna and Elsa, Buzz Lightyear, and Splash Mountain.
Plan is to do Fantasyland and New Fantasyland first; head over to Tomorrowland, then head back and do Haunted Mansion. Lunch at CHH QS, then over to Adventureland for POTC, Jungle Cruise, then Frontierland for our BTMRR FP+, and our Splash SDFP. After that I'll see what's available for FP+ for the rest of the day and play it by ear. We'll be zonked by then so we'll probably leave Frontierland and take the train around the park.
We have a 7pm Chef Mickey's ADR, which works great as it's a party night. Going to try to head to Epcot after dinner for Illuminations.
12/5- Epcot Day. Trying for FEA FP+ sometime mid-day. At RD, head to SDFP kiosk for TT, and Joy/Sadness M&G. Then head over to Soarin, Living with the Land, Finding Nemo, Figment, and depending on the time, Visa M&G. Then scoot over to do the SDFP M&G, then TT for our SDFP. Hopefully we'll be ready for our FEA FP+ at that point. I'll likely book a CP package for lunch or late breakfast, so we'll eat, then mosey around World Showcase, and catch the 5pm CP show. After that we'll ride Spaceship Earth on our way out, the take the monorail over to MK for our 7:35pm BOG dinner. If we have time, ride a ride or two, then watch Wishes.
12/6- HS day. *If* I don't get a F! Package at H&V, I'll FP+ Fantasmic. I'll also FP+ Star Tours, and Muppet Vision. At RD, we'll head to TSMM, then SDFP TSMM for later in the day, as well as Indiana Jones. DH will likely not ride RnRC, so I'll single rider line for that and if I'm feeling adventurous, do ToT by myself. Then we'll do the Great Movie ride, and then we have an 11:45 Sci-Fi lunch. After that, we'll do Star Tours FP+, then Muppet Vision FP+. If the timing works out, we'll do Indy, then go back to TSMM for our SDFP. Really hoping for H&V F! to open up, other wise we'll grab QS in the park, then go to Fantasmic. Early night back to the hotel after that.
12/7- US/IOA and MK EMH!
For FP+, I'll try for late night 7DMT, Peter Pan, and BTMRR. Grab a quick breakfast in the AoA food court, then Uber over to US/IOA for opening! Not really sure what the plan of attack is but all of the HP things. I want a Butterbeer!
Park closes at 7, so we'll Uber back to AoA most likely before that, clean up a little, then head to Cali Grill for our 9:30 ADR and Wishes
After that go to MK for late EMH, ride some FP+ rides, and poke around Main Street.
12/8- Sleep IN! It's our
MVMCP day, so we're going to relax at the hotel in the AM, then hit DS for some shopping and lunch at WGP Express.
Back to the resort for some rest and to change into our Christmas stuff. Hopefully will have an Ohana ADR at 3:30, then head to MK for MVMCP!!
I have no idea what to FP+ yet for this day!
12/9- Sleep in, 10:30 breakfast at 1900 Park Fare. No idea what we're doing this day; probably go resort hopping to check out decorations after breakfast, then back to Epcot. 6:15 HDDR, then MAYBE ROL if it ever opens. Pack
12/10- Bring luggage to bag check.
I am going to make either a late brunch or lunch ADR, just haven't decided where yet. Tragical Express picks us up at 5pm for our 8pm flight, so we have a good chunk of time to go to whichever park we want; most likely will hit MK for one last time, and then if we have time, DS.
I'm still a little out of place with my plans....but I need to do some more research on using FP+ and SDFP and strategies.
Anyway, once I explained that 7DMT is the most popular ride in Disney right now, and that people are going on that and the other two rides multiple times, he was all for it! His exact words: "Think of how much time we'll save getting those rides out of the way!!" Plus breakfast being included means we can plan on a later QS lunch, which I think will make the most sense. I'm pretty excited he agreed to do both CP package and EMM; I think he's feeling guilty for getting really drunk last night at our friend's birthday party.
totally worth him getting drunk 
