1st Time to Disney..looking for help

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Hello...my husband and I want to surprise our 7 & 4 year old boys with a trip to Disney some time in May. (Will Memorial Day weekend be too crowded??) I was looking on Vacations to Go and some other sites and there are just way too many options. I don't know what's good and what's not. We're looking to spend about 4k on air and hotel which hopefully will include park passes (prob won't do the hopper) and meal plan. Any suggestions? I hear the all star hotels attract the less than desirable crowd, is this true? CAuse it looks like those are what falls into our budget. I think we prob will spend a good deal of time at the pool, so any recommendations on a place with a cool pool too is greatly appreciated! I'm soooo excited to go and get all of this planned!!!!
 
Hello...my husband and I want to surprise our 7 & 4 year old boys with a trip to Disney some time in May. (Will Memorial Day weekend be too crowded??) I was looking on Vacations to Go and some other sites and there are just way too many options. I don't know what's good and what's not. We're looking to spend about 4k on air and hotel which hopefully will include park passes (prob won't do the hopper) and meal plan. Any suggestions? I hear the all star hotels attract the less than desirable crowd, is this true? CAuse it looks like those are what falls into our budget. I think we prob will spend a good deal of time at the pool, so any recommendations on a place with a cool pool too is greatly appreciated! I'm soooo excited to go and get all of this planned!!!!

I've never been during Memorial Day Weekend, But I am going May 29th this year :cool1: I've looked a lot at the website easywdw.com to get an idea of what crowds will be like. His crowd calendar is pretty accurate. Keep in Mind that Star Wars Weekends will be help Friday Saturday and Sunday over Memorial Day(actually it starts mid May - mid June) If you aren't interested in the Star Wars Festivities, I would suggest going to Hollywood Studios during the week. I believe their is a room discount currently out for your time frame, though I am not sure if Memorial Day is blocked out. You can check out what is available here:
https://disneyworld.disney.go.com/special-offers/

Have a great Vacation!
 
I don't know about a "less than desirable crowd." My husband has stayed there as a Chaperone of a his high school Senior trip, and he says the All Stars are a great value for the money. One of my friends has also stayed at POP Century and loved it.


If you're willing to upgrade to a Moderate, friends stayed at Port Orleans Riverside, and their sons LOVED the resort!!

I think the dining plan is a great value for your family; the kids will eat for something like $15 a day-- including a snack (think breakfast-- a bagel or croissant), counter service lunch and table service meal-- that can be a character meal!! Of course, the price for the adults is quite a bit more, but still-- it's a good value for kids under 10! Take a look at the Character meals at Chef Mickey's, Tusker House, and 1900 Park Fare. (That last one is in the Beach Club, but it's literally a 5 minute walk from International Gateway in Epcot-- really, really easy to get to!!!!)

Mousesavers is a great source of info on saving money at WDW: http://www.mousesavers.com/

Happy planning!!!
 

Hello...my husband and I want to surprise our 7 & 4 year old boys with a trip to Disney some time in May. (Will Memorial Day weekend be too crowded??) I was looking on Vacations to Go and some other sites and there are just way too many options. I don't know what's good and what's not. We're looking to spend about 4k on air and hotel which hopefully will include park passes (prob won't do the hopper) and meal plan. Any suggestions? I hear the all star hotels attract the less than desirable crowd, is this true? CAuse it looks like those are what falls into our budget. I think we prob will spend a good deal of time at the pool, so any recommendations on a place with a cool pool too is greatly appreciated! I'm soooo excited to go and get all of this planned!!!!

We are planning on staying 5 days.

Hi! We would love to help, but really need some more info. How much is air fare going to be for you? You want to stay in a budget, we are good at budget tips.

Disney can be overwhelming to plan. Or you can just book & show up. There are several non planners on the board too.

We took our 7 & 5 year old in nov (2012) and barely used the pool...and didn't take a mid day break, but the crowds were also less. Will you be renting a stroller? The strollers at the Disney parks are hard plastic & not comfy, there are several companies that rent jogging strollers.
 
I personally would avoid any holiday weekend. It will be more crowded! May is a great time to go as the weather is moderate and the crowds are low since kids are still in school. It is worth taking your 7 year old out for a few days which will allow for a better Disney experience. (On an aside, I have taken my girls out of school in Septmeber for the past 6 years for that same reason and it makes for a wonderful trip. Plus, it is only elementary school, they will survive with an absence or two).

Regarding the value resorts. We have always stayed there until last year. The free dining offered in Spetember was actually cheaper for us by staying at the moderate (we stayed at POFQ.). I will tell you what we have discovered. We are NEVER at the resort. Even our first year of going when my girls were 5&7. We slept in, got to the parks and came home to collapse in our beds. The girls did swim some mornings and some evenings but it was not enough to warrant the extra expense of a moderate or higher resort. I would say, unless you have many days and plan to spend a lot of time not in the parks, then a more expense resort could be worth it. But I tell you, as much as we envy the people at the Polynesian or Key West, we just can't see spending hundreds of dollars more per night just to sleep!! The value resorts have the same kind of people as you--people trying to have a wonderful Disney vacation without breaking the bank. I have found it a wonderful experience every time we go.

So for the values, let me give you my opinion. We have stayed at Pop the most as we just seem to enjoy that resort. The buses for that one seemed to be more plentiful too. I personally like All Star Movies. It is a bit more quiet than Pop as it is smaller. My girls enjoyed it and with the themes of movies, you can request a certain building. They have dalamations, Mighty ducks etc. Of course, the new Art of Animation looks very cool and the pool is a bit more fancier than the other value resorts which are just plain with a fountain, no slide. But my girls have never seemed to miss the slide. I would not spend the extra money for upgraded room there, though. I would stick with the cheapest room and hope you get an upgrade. Even if you don't, you'll have a good time, I promise!

Dining plan is questionable. I haven't looked at pricing as I have always had free dining but a lot depends on how your kids eat. There is so much food on the dining plan that it ends up being wasted. My girls simply could not eat that much. In the earlier days, we ended up with huge amounts of meals not eaten. I personally can't eat what is offered as every meal on the dining plan comes with dessert. Then you have snacks…oh, it is a lot of food. I end up skipping many meals. In fact, the first year I brought breakfast to eat in the room. After the 1st day, we never ate breakfast again. We were so full from eating the day before that we have a chocolate milk in the morning and then eat at noon so as to be ready to eat dinner. Again, this is all on free dining. My point is, evaluate what your kids eat and how you eat to determine whether the dining plan will be a good deal or not.

I would be happy to answer any other questions as, like I said, I have done this as cheaply as possible for the past 6 years with our two girls starting at when they were 5 & 7.

Oh, another hint. I think you said boys, right? At the barbershop right inside the main gate at Disney you can get their hair cut or just some cool styling with color gel and Mickey confetti in the hair. The latter is only &7.50. It is the cutest thing and gives them a chance to do something cool for cheap. My girls get it done every year and always garner a lot of attention because it is a little known secret. You can walk in or make reservations.

One last thought. If you are going this May, you probably should be making dining reservations now so you can get what you want, when you want. It will help make your experience better.

I say, go in May, no on Memorial Day; stay at the Values--they are great!
 
We stayed during Memorial Day and had a blast!!! It was a Star Wars Weekend, and DH and YDD LOVES that whole bit. It was wonderful. Crowds weren't bad in my humble opinion, although it was a bit hot for us (we're wimps) we all had a Star Wars Cupcake, and DH said if he ate it he would've barfed, LOL.
 
Thank you all for your replies! We are planning on Thurs- Tues so technically 5 days at the parks, Tuesday we would be leaving to come home.

I wasn't thinking of a stroller, my sons are 4 and 7. Do you think we should get one? They haven't been in a stroller in quite sometime, but I can now understand that if walking gets tiring. Are they too big for a stroller?

As for dining... my boys do not eat a lot. My 4 year old has an egg allergy, so we have to be very careful of what he eats when we're on the run. When does Disney offer free dining plan and which plan do they offer? I was thinking the 3 meals per day, but I'm reading that 2 is definitely enough. My boys are early risers and I know that we would be up early every day, so breakfast is definitely a must. I definitely want to do the character meals, I'm just not sure when we're going yet. I was thinking Memorial Day weekend because we're off that Monday, but I don't want to go at a crowded time. I don't mind pulling my 1st grader from school, that's not a big deal. We're not Star Wars fans so that convention or whatever it is will not appeal to us. I would think it would attract more people, so maybe we should steer clear of that week.

As for the resort...thanks for your take on the Value resorts. My husband is not the type to want to walk around all day, so that is why I kind of have a feeling that we will be spending more time at the hotel pool and such. I want to stay at a resort where the kids will enjoy the pool, maybe with a slide.

Thanks for the barber shop tip, I'll add that to my list of things we must do.

I just don't even know where to start, there's so much info out there...book now for this meal, do this, do that...I don't mind the planning, but there's wayyyyyy too much info, I don't know where to begin! Thanks so much for all of your input.
 
Value resorts are a great way to stretch your money, but they lack certain amenities, such as slides at the pool, hot tub, in-room coffee maker. If all you need is a bed and a basic pool, value resorts (any of them) will be fine. If you need a slide, consider upgrading to a moderate resort or staying off property and renting a car.

Many WDW veterans including myself use strollers to extend the time our pre-school kids spend in the parks. WDW is huge and potentially exhausting. But your kids are not using them now - don't sweat it, don't book one, but I would suggest making a note to contact Orlando Stroller Rental or a similar service if you find yourselves carrying your kids back from the parks. Disney stroller rentals will only get you to the theme park gate, not across parking lots and expansive hotel grounds. Speaking from experience, resort rooms are always "too far" from the bus stop when you are carrying a four-year-old.

One last piece of advice: don't try to do everything. Pick 3-5 "must do" activities each day, tackle those first, then explore the parks at your own pace. Trying to plan too much may be stressful.

Have fun and good luck!
 
Dining - everyone has their own opinion about whether the dining plan is worth it. In my opinion, it is only worthwhile if every member of your family needs desert and a drink with every meal.

My family prefers water with most meals - that's free. Or I might want a beer or glass of wine, but the dining plan only covered milk, juice and soda. We also share one dessert in the evenings only, and do not need two desserts plus a snack each day. We used extra snack credits to buy cookies and sugary junk to take home so we didn't waste our credits. Some of those snacks are still in my pantry two years later.
 
Taking a stroller is better than not having it and having a 4yr old tire out and want to be carried.
 
Wow, you folks are a boat load of information. Please know, I have not been to Disney in almost 20 years. I'm 39 years old, so this is like re-living my childhood again. My husband and kids have never been there before, so this is going to be our first family vacation as well. I want it to be fun, I want it to me memorable, I want it to be everythhing they expected and more!!!
 
Wow, you folks are a boat load of information. Please know, I have not been to Disney in almost 20 years. I'm 39 years old, so this is like re-living my childhood again. My husband and kids have never been there before, so this is going to be our first family vacation as well. I want it to be fun, I want it to me memorable, I want it to be everythhing they expected and more!!!

Stick around, they've just scratched the surface :)
 
Oh boy! Well, I want it to be a vacation, not a chore to have to go there. I'm used to booking an all-inclusive and showing up...but with Disney, it sounds like most of my days have to be planned. And if I don't plan them, I may not be able to do the things we want to do. As you can tell, I have no clue at this point! ugh Help!!!!!

My other question is...where can I get an actual price of the meal plans and park hopper and all the extras that are added to packages if booking within Disney. Is there anywhere where I can get menu prices? I'm looking to see what would make the best sense. Thanks!
 
I'm a total planning nerd, like a lot of people here.

You don't have to have a minute by minute plan, but here's what I suggest:

- At, or close to, your 180 day mark, make any ADRs you want. The reality is that the best times for those meals tend to go first. If you want your kids having dinner with Mikey at 6 pm, you've got to make that ADR before the restaurant fills up. You can certainly change those plans up to a few days ahead of time, but I think it's a good idea to have them.

- Have a general idea of which parks you want to do on what day. Sure you can change... if you're planning on AK and a monsoon blows in (yes, this was our 2008 trip) then change your plans to Epcot. But have a general plan.

- Have a good idea of which rides/ attractions are most important to you in each park. And, if you're staying on site, make those FP+ reservations at 60 days out. Again, there are tens of thousands of people at WDW at the same time I am. If I want my kids to see Soarin'-- and I do!!-- without waiting an hour or two on line, that means getting a FP+. So that's what I'll do.

Beyond that, though, your level of planning is totally up to you. At this point, we have a good idea of what we want to do. We get to the parks at rope drop, hit the big rides when the park is at its least crowded. Then, after lunch, we return to the resort to swim away the afternoon. We return at night for our ADRs and the evening. It works very well for us.

What you don't want to do is be that family who arrives at the park at noon, stands there looking at the map, asking who wants to do what. In the twenty minutes it takes to decide to go to Soarin', 400 people will have gotten on that line ahead of you. Know what your priorities are, and hit them as early as you can-- or FP+ them. Sure, you can stop and smell the roses, or hop on a line you hadn't planned on because it simply looks interesting. But buy a book or look at the youtube videos, and decide on your family's preferences.

My personal suggestions for Things to look at for your kids:
MK: All of Fantasyland,(we love Peter Pan!) maybe Indy Speedway-- my son loves that!, Pirates, Haunted Mansion, Jungle Cruise, maybe Tom Sawyer's Island, Monsters Inc laugh Floor, Buzz Lightyear

Epcot: Soarin', Spaceship earth, Imagination, Mexico, Norway, Test Track and Mission Space Green if they meet the height requirements.

Animal Kingdom: Safari, Kali Rapids (you WILL get wet), Dinosauer (kinda scary), Dig site

Hollywood Studios: Toy Story Mania, Star Tours, Stunt Show, Great Movie Ride

Get a copy of WDW for kids for write ups on each of them and decide what works best.
 
Thank you all for your replies! We are planning on Thurs- Tues so technically 5 days at the parks, Tuesday we would be leaving to come home.

I wasn't thinking of a stroller, my sons are 4 and 7. Do you think we should get one? They haven't been in a stroller in quite sometime, but I can now understand that if walking gets tiring. Are they too big for a stroller?

As for dining... my boys do not eat a lot. My 4 year old has an egg allergy, so we have to be very careful of what he eats when we're on the run. When does Disney offer free dining plan and which plan do they offer? I was thinking the 3 meals per day, but I'm reading that 2 is definitely enough. My boys are early risers and I know that we would be up early every day, so breakfast is definitely a must. I definitely want to do the character meals, I'm just not sure when we're going yet. I was thinking Memorial Day weekend because we're off that Monday, but I don't want to go at a crowded time. I don't mind pulling my 1st grader from school, that's not a big deal. We're not Star Wars fans so that convention or whatever it is will not appeal to us. I would think it would attract more people, so maybe we should steer clear of that week.

As for the resort...thanks for your take on the Value resorts. My husband is not the type to want to walk around all day, so that is why I kind of have a feeling that we will be spending more time at the hotel pool and such. I want to stay at a resort where the kids will enjoy the pool, maybe with a slide.

Thanks for the barber shop tip, I'll add that to my list of things we must do.

I just don't even know where to start, there's so much info out there...book now for this meal, do this, do that...I don't mind the planning, but there's wayyyyyy too much info, I don't know where to begin! Thanks so much for all of your input.

Like someone said, we've only scratched the surface. The free dining is normally offered during late August through September. Sometimes they extend it until November. However, as someone said and I mentioned, the dining plan includes so much food, that it becomes too much, especially with little ones who don't eat much. I would personally never pay for it because we could get away with so much less food. I would say, had we not had it, we would most likely share a good bit of our meals for counter services and for dinner. The portions are huge and we just can't eat that much. In fact, even on free dining, we do that. For example, Sci Fi Diner (A must do at Hollywood Studios--an indoor outside drive in theater with the tables in cars and old B movie clips playing), the meal comes with a milkshake if you want. Pair that with the huge portions, and it is so filling that you want to share! Additioanlly, you could bring some breakfast like cereal and milk and have the boys eat before you leave for the park. Then you are down to paying for only 2 meals. Obviously if you do the buffets you can't share but I tell you, the portions are quite big!

We stayed at PO FG and liked the pool. Go on here and find the threads for the various resorts. THe Port Orleans one is full of information and pictures. It gives you a good idea of what it would be like. I will tell you that I didn't feel that the moderate was that different from the values except for this--the moderates had slides and umbrellas for shade. I guess if you are cheap, they figure you can burn :lmao:! With that said, and if price was not an option, I would say that the deluxe hotels are hard to beat. If you are on the monorail system and plan on staying in the resort a lot, it would be nice. Our favorite is the polynesian. I could see lounging in their beautiful lobby with a drink or by the Tiki Bar…ah, the life of the rich! But like I state before, we have never been able to justify paying almost 3 times the cost of a value room. We could take almost 3 vacations for one stay at the Deluxe. Again, check out the various threads to get a good idea of which resort you like. For the boys, I think Port Orlean French Quarter is good--themeing and smaller property thus not as much walking; We checked out Carribean Beach and liked the pirate themed pool with slide and the beachy feel. However, it was spread out and having lived in FL, not as much as a draw for us. See what others think for your age boys.

Regarding the stroller. I personally wouldn't take one because it is another thing to deal with and sometimes, it is a mass of strollers that you have to park and then extricate your stroller from. At all rides, they have to be left outside so you have to park it or at the Land at Epcot, none are allowed in the pavilion. And, navigating around with a stroller can be a bit cumbersome. If your son hasn't used one, i wouldn't bother. My 5 year old, provided we fed her regularly when she seemed to be hitting the wall, kept up with us until the bitter end at midnight. Terrible Disney parents? Sure, but let me tell you, she did not complain and there are many things that are sit down that will give your son a chance to recoup. Furthermore, if your husband is not a stay at the park all day, then rest is coming anyways. I'm telling you, I would avoid the stroller like a plague unless you foresee your son needing a nap. (But he can always snooze in the hall of Presidents!!!);)

Bottom line is that you just have to figure out your family and how you see it all going down. Do some research, figure what is best for you. Know that if you are staying on property and taking the bus back to your resort, you have to allow for about 30 minutes per way. So you could come and go but at a time cost. Same with the dining and the strolling. All of us have our different opinions but it is based on how our family works.

May I give you a few hints which I wish I had known the first year I did this with young ones?
If you drive, you may want to consider booking through AAA and getting their diamond parking pass. Then, instead of taking the bus (except for Magic Kingdom because you have to then transfer from the transportation center), drive. What we found is that, with the diamond parking, we are so close in the parking lot that we can leave the park, get into our car and drive back to the resort probably before the first bus is loaded for that resort. This is especially true at the end of the night. The fact is, these buses often take a while to come and then they are loaded to capacity and then some. OFtne that means you are standing and or trying to hold a sleeping child while standing as the days of people giving up their seats seems to have passed. I just remember how miserable it was with two exhausted kids and the interminable wait for the bus along with the crowded conditions.

Plan your lunches!!! This is paramount! Look at the menus of all the restaurants in relation to the map. The first year my child wanted a hamburger kids meal in Epcot. So we headed for the American pavilion (All the way back in the park). After a very long walk, we found no hamburger. What? America didn't have hamburgers? Nope PB& J and maybe chicken nuggets. When all was said and done, and a far piece away, we found that Morrocco had hamburgers. Had we looked ahead of time, we would have saved much time, gnashing of teeth and even crying as we were trying to attain this illusive hamburger. Same thing at MK. My kids wanted two different things--knowing where to head or in advance, the plan for what your kids can eat will save you so much time. We spent over an hour the first year in MK just trying to find the food that the kids liked and they aren't picky. Most of these restaurants for lunch has a 2 to 3 item kids menu. PLAN, PLAN, PLAN. You will thank yourself and your poor kids will not get exhausted from running around trying to find the hamburger.
We take backpacks in but there are lockers. If you don't have a stroller, you may consider bringing things you may need and placing them in a locker versus toting them. That way you can enjoy your day without being laden with too much.

That's it for now. I promise you, if you plan as much as possible but are flexible, it will be a better vacation. Especially with the little ones, it will save all of you heartache. I even make a little laminated list with our reservations, confirmation numbers and even our lunch restaurant for the day. It helps keep things running smoothly. Also, planning will get you even more excited about your trip.
 
PS.

You haven't even asked for suggestions for restaurants but here are mine based on your kids ages.

Ohanas at Polynesian--our family's favorites and a fun experience.

HS-Sci Fi diner is a must for your boys. They will love it.
AVOID LIKE THE PLAGUE: our first year we went to character dining at Hollywood and Vine. Even my young girls hated it. Too loud, bad food. There are better character dining experiences.

MK-for the character dining, really liked Crystal Palace. It's not the that food is spectacular but it is good, a nice huge restaurant and great characters.

Epcot--so many good ones. SO many your kids would like
Coral Reef --the whole restaurant overlooks the aquarium. Ask to sit at the window seat and get a 5:30 ish seating and your boys will not only get to eat with sea creatures but also interact with the divers in the tank. We have always loved the food there.

1900 Park Fare--They do character dining right and it is good food. It is in the Grand Floridian so it is fun to go while at MK so you can ride the monorail and see the hotel.

There are truly so many good ones that it is hard to choose and, again, everyone will have their opinions but I wanted to just share a couple (and there are so many more) that my little girls have always liked. Again, check out the menus, the pictures etc to see what is best for your family.
 





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