We don't own at OKW either, but we finally decided to try it about 2 1/2 years ago. We really enjoy it now. It is probably DH's favorite resort. I still like the convenience and ambience at BWV better, but I really enjoy OKW. I have never stayed in a studio before, so I'm not sure if the rooms are bigger, but the 1BRs and MUCH bigger at OKW than all the other
DVC resorts.
I remember feeling a little remorse during our first trip at OKW at not being by the boardwalk. It took a while to grow on me, so don't expect miracles your first trip. It may be your 2nd trip that you probably enjoy more, seeing as it will feel more like 'going home.'
I try not to get too hung up on room requests because the views really are beautiful everywhere you go.
I really enjoy parking right in front of our unit and walking right in.
It has a very quiet and 'away from it all feeling.'
We enjoyed the boat ride to DTD, but be sure to time it right as the boat only leaves 2 times/hour from what I recall.
We have never stayed near the hospitality house - we enjoy the use of the quiet pools (our DS is too young to know what he is missing at the main pool).
Good luck and enjoy!