I now officially know how my mom felt when others would talk about going to HS in the 50s. She just scrunched up her face when others would describe things and say "I have NO idea what you are talking about".....
Big hair? That was 90s in my area (San Jose CA), well, actually I don't know if that's true b/c I ran screaming to WA in '87 for college, but it sure wasn't "big hair" while I was in HS in my area!
I did, however, have Kelly McGillis hair (I brought in the album from Top Gun to Supercuts and said "do that") from sophomore year on, in varying lengths. It's a good bob with a couple front layers. Versatile.
Freshman year I had a cute short, semi-asymmetrical haircut, that was as funky as I got.
I personally never connected to 16 Candles fashions or Pretty in Pink...that prom dress she deconstructs was just horrible (and I'm a Molly, except for her nerdy character on Facts of Life M. Ringwald was my hero when no one was Molly, so I really really hated that dress!) when she's done with it (would have been fine to wear as it was), even when they came out I just went "huh?" at it.
But Madonna in Like a Virgin, oh YES that was mid-later 80s fashion to me. Except for the lace/mesh stuff, I never could find those so never wore them (you might notice her hair was just like gelled Kelly McGillis hair, so easy for me to do

).
Then again, you're talking to a person who wore the same dress to my Junior Prom, a friend's Senior Ball, and then my Senior Ball, just with different sashes and shoes and jewelry, and once with a longer skirt (it was tea length with an underskirt to make it floor length), just to save money (much better than destroying someone else's prom dress, are you listening, Pretty In Pink?

). Never wore white shoes, though!
Ignore me channeling my now-late mom, it annoyed me then and it's probably annoying you now. However, I always did the BEST rolled up jeans and big shirts with swinging ponytail (once my hair grew out) on our 50s Days, thanks to her accurate, not-influenced-by-cinema-and-media, memories.
Have fun at the dance. And stop calling it vintage.

It's only 2 decades ago.

Unless you want to explore your feelings on 2 decades from now YOUR clothes being called "vintage"!