I have only eaten at 1900's park fare so i can't say anything about the wave but it does look so pretty and classy. I think the the wave also appears to be more adult friendly than 1900 park fare. I absolutely love 1900 park fare. The breakfest feels a lot like easter brunch and has some of the yummiest breakfest food in disney. The dinner food has recieved less positive reviews but i have only had breakfest so i can't really give a opinon of dinner. The 1900 park fare also is a character meal. Breakfest has alice, mad hatter, mary poppins, pooh bear and tigger. Dinner is cinderella, prince charming, lady termaine and cinderella's nasty step sisters. I highly reccommend the park fare but i think or your specific situation the wave is better for you