15 and Pregnant.

[#1DisneyFreak]

Oh My Goodness!!

 

[chisnpeke]

i think that all the girls that get pregnant when in their teens are stupid! they don't realise that they are going to have to try and pass their exams and raise a child, it is not fair for the baby.

They may become good parents but if they had waited, got through their exams, they could be even better. They would have more time to spend with their kid and dont have the stress of school.

So just because someone makes a mistake and uses bad judgment they are stupid? That's pretty judgemental.

 

[cindys_castle2011]

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[xCourxCorex]

I think a better statement would be, "they made a stupid decision."
You're confusing the teen moms with their actions. They made a poor decision.. that doesn't make them bad people.

 

[Cinderelli16]

Wow that's just great! If that ever happened to me I would be shot! There's a girl in my school who is also 15 and pregnant, and guess what? She doesn't even know who the dad is!!! It's between her boyfriend (who just graduated), and another boy she was messing around with, pretty sad if you ask me. But this also gets better, she still partys which means she still drinks, and smokes pot while pregnant, and just stopped going tanning a couple months ago. Her mom is also so excited about having a new grandson that she bought her a new car, and threw her a baby shower. My mom would never do that.

 

[imabrat]

Tierny, do you still think the mother is stupid if it was rape? Saying all teenage mothers are stupid is painting with a pretty broad brush. Each persons situation is different.

 

[Minnie Squeaks]

this is whats goin through my head.....

 

[Pirana]

Im so sorry! It sounds like something that one of my cousins would do!!

But this also gets better, she still partys which means she still drinks, and smokes pot while pregnant, and just stopped going tanning a couple months ago. Her mom is also so excited about having a new grandson that she bought her a new car, and threw her a baby shower. My mom would never do that.

WOW! Neither would mine! I cant believe someone would be so destructive knowing they have a life inside them!!!

It's not stupidity...it's just not using the best judgment.

Exactly!

The best thing to do is not get into any situation by not getting pregnant young! If you want kids, wait, and then make sure it is really what you want. That way you will have a successful career ( hopefully) and a partner willing to stay by your side and not run as soon as they find out you are pregnant!

Personally I dont think someone needs a 'Successful career'. And you might not have ment it the way I perceived it as.
Maybe Im old fashioned but I think the best thing would be getting married then have kids ;]

 

[tinkerbell12]

i think that all the girls that get pregnant when in their teens are stupid!

Wow.
Way to be judgmental.

 

[CheezDoodle]

Wow that's just great! If that ever happened to me I would be shot! There's a girl in my school who is also 15 and pregnant, and guess what? She doesn't even know who the dad is!!! It's between her boyfriend (who just graduated), and another boy she was messing around with, pretty sad if you ask me. But this also gets better, she still partys which means she still drinks, and smokes pot while pregnant, and just stopped going tanning a couple months ago. Her mom is also so excited about having a new grandson that she bought her a new car, and threw her a baby shower. My mom would never do that.

Wow!! That's just horrible. Her child is going to have a lot of problems, probably fetal alcohol syndrome.

And my mom wouldn't be mad at me if I got pregnant as a teen, she would think I made a bad decision. I'm pretty sure that she wouldn't want me to keep the baby or go through the stresses of being pregnant or at least raising a child. If I decided to put the baby up for adoption because of religious reasons I know that I wouldn't even drink coffee, for the health of the baby, because it wouldn't be it's fault that I decided to have it.

 

[MrsSparrow..]

Wow that's just great! If that ever happened to me I would be shot! There's a girl in my school who is also 15 and pregnant, and guess what? She doesn't even know who the dad is!!! It's between her boyfriend (who just graduated), and another boy she was messing around with, pretty sad if you ask me. But this also gets better, she still partys which means she still drinks, and smokes pot while pregnant, and just stopped going tanning a couple months ago. Her mom is also so excited about having a new grandson that she bought her a new car, and threw her a baby shower. My mom would never do that.

No offence, because I don't know how you get your information, but you may have got all this "oh she smokes pot whilst pregnant" through petty rumors at high school. If you did hear this all from a rumor (because it seems pretty detailed to me) then I wouldn't be talking about it from behind her back. As someone who has had these kinda rumors said behind her back before, I can tell you it is really hurtful when you hear people making up stuff. It's only not a rumor if you've seen it with your own eyes. And if your telling the truth, then shut me up and call me Judy

Becomming a mum at a teenager in this era is frowned upon and fair enough, is an overall bad decision. But not all teenage mums give up their kids or have abortions, some turn into fantastic mothers, and are both successfull socialy and professionally.

 

[PrincessKsMom]

Okay, adult here, but I just had to post 'cause I'm missing something. She's 10 weeks pregnant but your cousin's been in rehab for 13? How do you even know it's his? Just because of a prior situation? The only thing I will say about the situation is don't judge until you're in that situation. You might think you'd handle it one way, until the situation is upon you and you react differently. For the baby's sake, I hope this girl grows up and becomes a wonderful mom.

 

[Cinderelli16]

No offence, because I don't know how you get your information, but you may have got all this "oh she smokes pot whilst pregnant" through petty rumors at high school. If you did hear this all from a rumor (because it seems pretty detailed to me) then I wouldn't be talking about it from behind her back. As someone who has had these kinda rumors said behind her back before, I can tell you it is really hurtful when you hear people making up stuff. It's only not a rumor if you've seen it with your own eyes. And if your telling the truth, then shut me up and call me Judy

Becomming a mum at a teenager in this era is frowned upon and fair enough, is an overall bad decision. But not all teenage mums give up their kids or have abortions, some turn into fantastic mothers, and are both successfull socialy and professionally.

I promise you Judy this is all first hand knowledge, i would never make something up especially about this type of situation. The girl was in my 2nd hour and she actually told me all of this, and I'm not going behind her back or anything but I read this thread, and I could kind of relate to what she was saying. That's all, and I'm sure she will be a great mother though, I hope.

 

[llama62]

I'm 95% sure that there's at least a few girls in my 8th grade class that aren't virgins anymore. None of them are noticeably pregnant (yet)

 

[barfownz]

wow. 8th grade?!

 

[cindys_castle2011]

Okay, adult here, but I just had to post 'cause I'm missing something. She's 10 weeks pregnant but your cousin's been in rehab for 13? How do you even know it's his? Just because of a prior situation? The only thing I will say about the situation is don't judge until you're in that situation. You might think you'd handle it one way, until the situation is upon you and you react differently. For the baby's sake, I hope this girl grows up and becomes a wonderful mom.

Her being 10 weeks into her pregnancy, and my cousin being in rehab for 13 weeks, is one of the problems. She's telling everyone including her parents that it is his, but all of us know who the real dad is, even he knows (the dad). And yes I know, I shouldn't judge, its wrong and I hate to be judged. I try as hard as I can not to, but she just makes me mad sometimes. My grandparents own a church and the church and his mom was the ones who put him in rehab and she's always talking bad about them in front of me, and always putting down his first daughters mom in front of me. Its like she does it on purpose, like she is so much better than her. So, yeah she made a mistake and hopefully she'll learn from this and this child will be a big wake up call for her.

 

[cindys_castle2011]

wow. 8th grade?!

nope she'll be in 11th this fall, if she doesn't drop out.

 

[theodorechipmunkluvr]

I know it is sadd. . . Yes they have made some badd choices. . . The worst thing is gossiping about them. They probably feel HORRIBLE. . . Please dont just go around talking about them behind there backs. . . Be there for those preagnent teens. . . They need some1 to TALK to them not JUDGE them. . . We all have out days!

 

[barfownz]

use a condom! or double wrap it, if its possible.

 

[PrincessKsMom]

Her being 10 weeks into her pregnancy, and my cousin being in rehab for 13 weeks, is one of the problems. She's telling everyone including her parents that it is his, but all of us know who the real dad is, even he knows (the dad). And yes I know, I shouldn't judge, its wrong and I hate to be judged. I try as hard as I can not to, but she just makes me mad sometimes. My grandparents own a church and the church and his mom was the ones who put him in rehab and she's always talking bad about them in front of me, and always putting down his first daughters mom in front of me. Its like she does it on purpose, like she is so much better than her. So, yeah she made a mistake and hopefully she'll learn from this and this child will be a big wake up call for her.

Thanks for the reply. Glad to see you seem to have cooled off a little and are taking a better perspective on things. It's very frustrating to have negative people around you all the time and it's hard not to get caught up in that negative vibe. Believe me, I can be extremely judgmental and negative and I'm really trying to change and be a better person. I have a 12 year old daughter and I see how negative she's becoming because of my poor example. I know this is a very stupid, adult thing to say, but try to learn from other people's mistakes -- your cousin, his mom, the mother of this baby. Be smart and keep yourself out of these kinds of situations and you'll be happier for it.