One thing you have to keep in mind with the totals are that one of her little guys is 3 and the baby is less than 1. Do you order your kids their own meals at that age? I sure never did. Plus, do you realize how cheap it is to make pancakes? We are talking practically free here. So, take out $3 for breakfast to get bananas and a portion of a gallon of milk as well as the cost of two eggs out of the carton and assume she brought pancake mix she already had at home. Then, I know I can buy a rotiserie chicken for less than $5 a loaf of french bread for $1 and a bag of salad for less than $2. (Plus there will be salad and chicken leftover for adding to another meal.) We are now at $11 for the day leaving her $39 left for a lunch out. Sounds doable to me especially taking into account the ages of the kids. Another day, she takes the leftover chicken chops it up and adds it to pasta (89c) with some salad dressing (cheap kind 99c for the whole bottle.) Cook up some frozen brocolli to throw it for a buck or two and add some apples. Voila, another dinner for maybe $5.
I have to admit I am a mean mommy and I refuse to let my kids order mac and cheese in a sit down restaurant. I also almost always have them split a meal. I too cringe at the food left behind. On any vacation, I often wonder what the point of even ordering them any food was as it seems like all of it is still sitting there when they claim they are done. The one place they get to order Mac and cheese is in the Land foodcourt. They love it there and it seems much more homemade than most restaurants. Although I must also say that the $7.49 meals at Disney I don't think are too bad a deal. It does include a drink and often a dessert. So, for your money you can get a cup of soup or salad as well as ice cream sundae.
Tnkbell--as I remember, you came in under budget last time around. Good job. We did a bargain trip our last one too that only included one day of MK. We had a great time and relaxed much more than on any FL vacation of the past. I think sometimes people get stuck on your budget with the idea that a DISNEY vacation cannot be done for so little, but you are really doing a FL vacation with Disney included. Have a great time!!