Hi
We are sailing for our first ever cruise this time too. It will be me, DH, DD (12)

& DS (7)
I am new to sailing but not new to the boards or to Disney. Me and my kids go once or twice a year, DH is not so much of a Disney fan

but he is looking forward to a relaxing vacation on the cruise

There are so many things I think I need to understand before we sail any volunteers out there willing to hold my hand and walk me thru the process?
I am still trying to plan my before and after stays, I wanted to come in early Friday 11/20 to do
MVMCP but I don't think we'll be able to swing that due to school, DD is starting Middle school so I think it may be a little tough for her to miss this day especially since it's the Friday before their week long Thansgiving break. I'm assuming the teachers will be testing at least that's how it was when I was in school...anyway we are planning to arrive on Saturday and stay at AKL, we are DVC members, for one nite then drive to the port on Sunday. After the cruise I wanted to come back to Orlando but all the DVC resorts are booked and I really don't want to spend money on property so we are planning to snag a room in Cocoa Beach on Priceline or Hotwire for a couple of nites before heading back home.
We have been fortunate to travel quite a bit this year, I did a solo "mom mental moment" trip to WDW in Feb, I took the kids to WDW in June, all of us drove to St. Louis a couple of weeks ago, I have a class reunion trip planned in Sept and we also won free tickets to US/IOA that we would like to use in Sept and finally the cruise in Nov. Needless to say my vacation budget has been streched to the limit this year

so I am looking for ways to save money on the US/IOA trip and the cruise.
I am only budgeting about $2000 for both the US/IOA and cruise trips for the 4 of us which is excluding any vacation items that I may need to purchase before the trips. The bulk of that I will be using for the cruise maybe close to $1200 for the cruise, does that seem like enough?

Since my husband wants a relaxing vacation on the ship we are not planning any excursions but I do intend to get off the ship in Nassau to explore a bit with or without him

We are bringing adult beverages and water on the ship with us so I am not planning to spend money on the drinks of the day...btw anyone know how much the drinks of the day normally cost

I am giving my kids a spending allowance of $50 each is that enough?

They typically will buy a small mickey/minnie to commemorate their trip (they have quite the collection going) and maybe something else ship related. Other than tips what else should I expect to pay for on the cruise. Oh photos, we are bring our camera and I know the ship's photographers will take pics for us after they've done their's but is that everywhere? What about the photo when we are getting on the ship and in the restaurants will they take a photo with our camera too? I know we won't have the fancy overlays but I'm sure there are some scrapbooking supplies and frames for sale onboard. What about those special background shots can we use our camera with those too?
TIA
Kim