aes74 -- I think V&A is well worth it whether you drink or not. We love the wine pairings, but with our without wine, you will enjoy the outstanding food, the wonderful service and the beautiful and very romantic ambience.
We did V&A's and loved it. We don't drink but did share a wine pairing, they did a wonderful job of matching, but I don't think our dinner would have be lacking if we had skipped the wine all together.
We went to V&A's on our 10th Anniversary - it was very special, intimate and romantic. The food is exceptional (fine if you don't drink, but if you do, the wine pairings are exceptional as well ).
I would definitely recommend it - everyone greeted us with a 'Happy Anniversary' and we were given a chocolate card with same on it. Very lovely way to celebrate.
If you don't want to spend quite as much money, my second favorite restaurant is Artist Point in the WL.
Good Luck!