like a good friend of mine i prefer to steer clear of the drama but when someone that i know and care about as a friend is hurting i am going to comment. i do not know you people but i do personally know one person on this board and while she says things are taken care of privately i think it is time to publicly say what needs to be said whether she wants me to say these things or not. as women you want to act innocent and say things you think noone else will pick up on and you guys are wrong on that and i care enough to make a stand and protect the ones i care about. and i will hope that the man in her life can understand that . when someone comes onto a forum like this and attachments are made then it is unfair to single out that new person as the bad guy. if a man is flirting with you and then ends up with someone else blame him not the new woman or vice versa if it is a new guy going after a woman who has been a regular on board. i have seen your chat room, seen your viciousness towards one another and have to ask myself if that is what disney is all about and the answer to that is no. you people are letting your insecurities and jealousy over ride your common sense and you are acting very inappropraitely towards others. i am sure by now you all know who my friend on here is and i was in chat a certain night and saw a conversation where she asked a certain favor and i know from just talking to her now that she asked that certain favor in person and not only did someone not honor that request you went even further and posted what she specifically ask you not to post. now i know her man defended her in this privately but i am here to say publicly that what you did was wrong, you knew what you were doing, you did it with intent to make problems and you are not innocent of wrong doing. you have tried to portray yourself as innocent yet you are guilty of a lot due to your own insecurities. this does not only apply to my friend but i am seeing it over and over again. what is wrong with this picture? this is supposed to be people who love disney yet the magic is lacking. you people go into chat and attack others with no thought to anyones feelings.what have any of these people did to you, do you know for a fact that any wrong doing occurred or are you listening to rumors. noone controls another persons actions, if during your meet you didn't get to spend time with someone then blame that someone not anyone they were rooming with. remember what disney is all about, the love and the magic and the cooperation. bring this discussion back around to the topic and let your pettiness fall away. i dont have time to come into chat often but feel free to light into me in chat, i am a man with broad shoulders and more than willing and able to defend the people that i love because thats what a real man does.it is a weak man that allows a bully to stand their ground , sometimes a real man walks away from a fight but a real man will also defend what is right and knows that you have to stand for something or you will fall for anything. my gal pal is perfectly capable of defending herself but i wanted her to know i have her back and the back of her friends. i have nothing to lose. i have not named any names so i guess that means anyone who cares to reply negatively must have a guilty conscience. so instead of being negative how about remembering what everyone has in common, that is a love for disney, although from the posts i have read i think that too is more horse pooh than anything else.if you have to always be attacking each other on a personal level then you are not here discussing disney .