I am sorry things are going so badly for you. I think there is still time to save your trip! Try to just start over in your head like if you just arrived. Chalk this up to one of those trips that just had a rough start but you made the best of it.
When we went on our first trip(DH and I) we did no planning. It was the end of July and we drove down without a ressie!!
It was really a bad trip but we made the best of it. I also made sure we would never make the same mistakes again!
OP, I know you said you spent a lot of effort on this trip but I'm sorry but i have to think if this was true you would've never went during President's week if crowds bother you. Once you did realize it was that week you should've had a plan of attack!LOL
Here's my advice to save this trip:
Put your 10 month old in a crib or pack n play!(why was she on the bed anyway!?
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Let your mom stay in her room and get some much needed relax!
Get yourself to a spa and get a massage!!
Check the weather before you leave your room and plan accordingly.
Get your baby some medicine and take her to the MK! Nothing cures better than Mickey and the castle!(but keep her comfy in a stroller with blankets)
When you get home I would try and find out why your mom is getting hurt so much? Is she unsteady on her feet? There could be something serious going on. From what you describe it seems like a lot of falls and accidents and that would worry me if it was my mom.
To the OP's defense, there was a hurricane that hit Alabama, I just didn't know it affected Orlando with rain, but it's possible!
OP, don't be sorry you posted here. It's OK to vent but now that you did try to salvage the rest of your trip!!! Good luck!