I don't worry that someone I love will be poor and no one will care, because I would care. I really want to see us go back to a time where family and friends took care of each other. I worry about the person who doesn't have a loved one. I want the social net to be there for the elderly person who never had kids or other close relatives. I want it to be there for the family that has really enormous medical bills to deal with a seriously disabled child. I worry that by spreading the help too thin, we ultimately hurt those that truly need it and have no other options.
There needs to be more accountability of the people who take advantage of social programs. I say that as someone who HAS taken advantage of them. I was a poor, young mother (not teen, but young) and even working full time and doing everything I could, there was simply no way to dig myself out of poverty alone. The cost of daycare alone was more than my entire paycheck. Literally. It's impossible to consider paying for health insurance or starting a retirement account when the lights are about to be turned off. It's amazing how many people think that poor = lazy. Now that I have a "good job," I can still look back and say that I don't work nearly as hard now as I did then. Not.even.CLOSE!
Sure, people can say, "Well, you should've thought about that before you had kids you couldn't afford." To that, I say, "Congratulations to you for being so perfect!" Not to mention, that attitude is about as productive as preaching abstinence to a pregnant teen or safe sex to an AIDS patient. Too late!
THANK GOODNESS those "safety nets" were there or I'd probably die working as a waitress. Really, anyone who wants to go to college and better themselves has the opportunity. The government will pay your tuition, pay your rent if need be, pay your daycare bill, etc. Right or wrong....they are willing to do it if you are.
I think people should be required to attend college (for those that are able) if they're going to take advantage of social programs. As of now, there are no requirements for someone who receives section 8 housing, food stamps, etc. They can lay on the couch for however long they want to with no consequence. It's a shame. I was humiliated to have to ask for help, but I would've been even more humiliated to know the help was available, being abused all over the country, and I wasn't taking advantage of it as someone who could make a difference.
I'm proud to be a liberal, but the system as we know it is completely out of hand. If someone is going to pay your rent, buy your food, pay your daycare tab, and offer a free education then I think you owe it to the taxpayers (and yourself) to put that "free money" to good use instead of laying on the couch. Unfortunately, as long as we're willing to hand it over without asking anything in return, we'll continue to go further in debt and never see a return on all these "investments" we're making.