Katie,
I also wanted to tell you that I just read your engagement TR and your story is so sweet (and all the craziness just makes it that much more memorable!) I was at a conference in Baltimore and DF came out there to surprise me (and propose), as soon as I saw him, I knew what was happening, so I can totally empathize with the excited-nervous-queasy feeling. I was so nervous and happy that I was talking like a fool, but in the end it turned out to be a very "us" proposal, which was perfect
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I'm so glad there are so many other budget-minded brides on these boards. I was seriously getting sick of all the frivolousness that most people associate with weddings (if you want it and can afford it, go for it, but my $ is going elsewhere). I am "under-employed" right now, so money is a bit tight, and I'm glad to know that a nice wedding can be done on a budget.
Keep the tips coming!