yes,,,i think it was on/with purpose to present his feelings
toward a situation that we only "see" @ wdw.
while i see the points....i just think it is nice to remember that
there are always 2 sides to Q-story.
*
now for a lil'wandering & since i am expression about me, i
may in~deeds.....waffle around-just a lil' bit . first things first...
...my current influence is my current world, watching in~ception.
why? a movie of make believe that like to play tricks on the
audience ...mind/mind. however, the thing i think that holds more
fascination....is "pure reality".
so much we miss by our ways of thinking when the most important
knowledge we need is/are dismissed.
will make /use the topic presented here in hopes of not losing
my points. i pounded this & similar ways of thinking, not for
winning or trying to change another feeling/s or viewpoint but
as a warning against relying on rationalization for a coping
skill or a defensive mechanism. yes , most of the topic/s
are not life or death..but practicing rationalizing can /does
leave to many of life worst disappointments and/or loss
of health, even death.
as you boldly presented, these types of intrusive behaviors are
frequently seen here , all over the boards. so the key, keys
in maintaining one's own happy feelings while @ wdw so
intruders don't take /affect the time /the expectations/ desires
for going & of course spending all that $ .....without wasting
time, precious wdw time.
fyi...i have my own theory about some of these "crossroads".
based on seeing certain types repeating rituals that they are
reporting as "magic moments". when others read , i think
too many adopt/accept the observations as prn & must do,
in order for them to have the same magical feelings. in
reality , i think it behooves every family to determine their
own magical time--that is, we make our own expectations
based on our family interests---therefore, all our trips have
been special but very , very different....& funny enough,
they include the "problems/obstacles" we have encountered
...that changed /lead us to different paths..that we would not
made if left to our own accord.....funny, huh?
yes , ok....i do,
@ myself. and i like playing around
with reality because.....of discovery. all my life , in all my
travels & as far as i can remember backwards...my encounters
have been privilege, just by paying attention. in fact, i came
up with a t~test that suggested "reality" can be 2 things.
wanta know ?....( a single point and or numerous points ,
contained by 2 margins. ) yep that's me...defined by my hobby
to fine new "ways of thinking". especially those with new
ideas for improving quality of life. * but years ago, i begin
to realized their are important/significant knowledge that
a generation valued so high, that they try to passed onto
the new generation via novels, research, traditions,
cultures..so forth. we are dismissing /losing great knowledge
that will hurt all the really important values...time, sharing,
protecting, & so forth ......so much , & a good ex, is
like "don't throw the baby out with wash." wise tales are
exactly that. hidden wisdom for those that think about
it.
back to the movie. why? reality that's why....most accept that
movies / tv are not in reality, but they miss the lesson being
taught. actors/actresses ....are role playing ,& are defined to
tell the story. in true reality, all of us do not meet a specific
type...as all us are not 100% good or bad, instead we
have traits that are effected by our feelings & they changed.
sometime by the observer so that pending one choice,
you can be on their good or bad side...just for being you.
i am special for being a nobody ...that position give freedom
in being an observer & a learner. i pay attention to paying
attention because i think there are 2 types.
see? the above subject is "asking" how far can i go before i
commit a wrong. ok, here the facts i was taught & combined
with i learn from sharing with others. your rights end when
your actions/speech, begins to hurt another....& you will
recognize this boundary is listening--when the person tells
you so. ( they will only do this if they trust you or are
important to them) . otherwise , (get the wise part~
)
....using logic/common sense /& past experiences for a
guide. when you become aware, you stop...& whatever you
can "add" as a corrective measure....i am sorry, so forth-
demonstrate respect/caring a personal value. cool , really is!
respect ......,
as in this case, you see all the $ you are spending has not a
single penny for stealing ( reality) of parking from a person
staying , that did pay for that space but no longer there
as it should be.....even if it is my old, beat up jalopy. truth.
...i think ( @ least 4 me) ..& especially since i rely on reality
orientation as a primary intervention ..to help others toward
health recovery, to defined it with a boundary definition ...
" reality is a fact that was true yesterday as it is today &
the same tomorrow. hint , anything meeting this definition
works well as a tool for "measurement."
human dynamics is just the reference to coping skills that
works in the real world. time is your most prized possession,
because once it is spent, cannot be restored. and being
true, means those you spend it with & share depends on
the ways you treat others. therefore, the ways you treat
others have a positive/negative results toward your
life. now that does not need any more explanation ...
except, i like to add...this lil'observation....i have
learn...( i am impressed with the ways life matters
are set up, interconnected , with all the pieces fitting
together......the designs are superior to any man knowledge.)
oh, i am leaving proper english out for "shortcuts." if
i am thinking so can you. yes i am lazy & easy going
for the most part. ,
...the above, based on placing a high value on your "time',
means it does you no good by wasting time being mean, nasty,
rude, intrusive, judging, so forth behaviors....because
such actions limit /reduce positive time for gains. there
are no second chances & your choices become your
legacy...for here, think about it.....if you spend all yuor
time hurting others to gain $ , all thru life....you are
missing the fact that you are still aging......& eventually
one day when you wake up, old /feeble 100+,
...with the realization....not a single person left that
care if you die or live, can be a real reality..... loneliness ,
an emotional pain with grief , often lead to strong
feelings toward suicide.
so is it worth it? hurting others is not so easy to forget.
in reality, we have memories. see why we suggest-
do the things today you will want to remember
tomorrow, is also the best way to prevent regret?
just one more lesson like to share...the bible speaks
a warning not to judge others. i believe the main point
(like so many others) are missed....it's primary message
is not to judge oneself...as "giving up" because all
mankind lacks the power to make the final say.
and based on human dynamics, it is evident that if we
really want to make the world a better place, then we
need to do self improvement. if we accomplished any
of that--then we effect all those we interact q day.
so if you are really paying attention ( not to me as i
am nothing but a nobody )......then you recognized
why i "hammer" the faults/dangers relying on rationalizations
to defend "behaviors" , when in reality - behooves all
of us to make a different choice. see? we can make
a difference....
the movie is done..so am i . wouldn't it be nice if we
were given second chances, i wonder?
oh, in the d.~spirit......hope this makes a lil' sense &
my best /happy thought for a
day.