Mickey'snewestfan
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- Apr 26, 2005
We're moving into an apartment that allows pets, and DS8 really really really wants a dog. He's been talking about it for a long time, and to be honest I think it would be great for him. However, I'm also pretty sure that us getting a dog wouldn't be fair to the animal. Here's my situation:
1) Single mom, one child, 2 bedroom apartment
2) Hoping to adopt a second baby, toddler or preschooler within the next few years.
3) I work long hours, DS is involved in a lot of sports etc . . . -- we're probably gone from home 7:45 till 7:00 most weekdays, I might be able to shave that a bit, but not much.
4) Money is an issue. I'm confident that I could afford food and regular vet care, but I have several friends whose dogs have had such separation anxiety that the neighbors complained and they had to put them in doggie daycare to avoid being evicted because of the noise. Doggie daycare is NOT in the budget on a regular basis. Maybe once a month if I'm staying late at work but not Monday through Friday.
DS talked me into looking through petfinders, and some of the older pets caught my eye -- 6 - 10 year old dogs who are described as sweet and gentle and are being rehomed because the owner moved to a nursing home or some such thing. Even then, though, they'd need to be exercised more than every 12 hours right?
I am really bad at letting DS talk me into things -- he's a little spoiled , and like I said I think that having a dog would be great for him (it was great for me as a kid), but I think I need to hold firm on this one -- don't I?
1) Single mom, one child, 2 bedroom apartment
2) Hoping to adopt a second baby, toddler or preschooler within the next few years.
3) I work long hours, DS is involved in a lot of sports etc . . . -- we're probably gone from home 7:45 till 7:00 most weekdays, I might be able to shave that a bit, but not much.
4) Money is an issue. I'm confident that I could afford food and regular vet care, but I have several friends whose dogs have had such separation anxiety that the neighbors complained and they had to put them in doggie daycare to avoid being evicted because of the noise. Doggie daycare is NOT in the budget on a regular basis. Maybe once a month if I'm staying late at work but not Monday through Friday.
DS talked me into looking through petfinders, and some of the older pets caught my eye -- 6 - 10 year old dogs who are described as sweet and gentle and are being rehomed because the owner moved to a nursing home or some such thing. Even then, though, they'd need to be exercised more than every 12 hours right?
I am really bad at letting DS talk me into things -- he's a little spoiled , and like I said I think that having a dog would be great for him (it was great for me as a kid), but I think I need to hold firm on this one -- don't I?