Dentam
Dreaming of Disney
- Joined
- Feb 6, 2015
Everyone starts getting defensive when the "other side" uses discriminatory language. Height, frame, muscle, etc all play a role when it comes to weight, size, and health.
I did "get to work" to lose weight in my mid 20s. I was cold all the time and 1000-1200 calories a day just wasn't healthy. And even then, I was still only a size 8/10 because of the size of my skeleton. I'm happier being curvier, thank you. My body naturally wants to stay at a certain weight and it takes work to move that number up or down. I realize some men won't be attracted to me, but we all have our preferences. Just don't tell me I'm fat, lazy, obese, etc.
I can lift significantly more weight than many of the petite and/or thin women at my gym. And yet less than most men because of our natural body compositions.
THIS. I basically stopped eating when I was 19 and was exercising a lot. The lowest weight I reached (after all of that plus a 3 week severe illness) was 132 lbs on my 5'7" frame. I was MISERABLE. There is so much more to gauging health than the outdated BMI measurement which vastly simplifies it based on only two measurements - weight and height.