My brother just recently (official within the last 2 weeks) got a divorce and has every other weekend/holiday visitation with his 5 year old daughter.
For some time now he has been letting the 5 year old daughter ride in the front seat of the car/truck (all of the vehicles have a normal sized back seat). Sometimes she sits in her booster seat, sometimes not.
I've said something to him twice, just a little "She is sitting in the front seat?" which was answered with "Don't you give me grief about it, I hardly ever get to see her, I should be able to let her sit where she wants".
It's not safe for a child her age/size to be sitting in the front seat and as much as he loves her and says he would do anything for her, I would think her safety would be his top priority but he won't hear it.
I think my next approach is going to be something along the lines of telling him that he just better hope that his ex-wife doesn't find out that she sits in the front seat. If I were in her shoes I would be fighting to not the daughter be in the car with him if he is not going to provide as safe of an environment as possible. (Believe me, the ex is no saint, just saying what I can imagine her thinking, rightfully so)
Am I completely out of line for letting this bother me? She is my niece, I love her and I worry about her. If she were in my car she would be in her booster in the back seat buckled in.
I am also a be polite advocate for car seat safety, I don't hesitate to correct people regarding the new-ish recommendation for rear facing until 2 years. Why not do everything you can to protect a child?