Kennywife said:I wish I had the kind of life where all I had to worry about was somebody does with theirs.
Well I spent Valentines morning in our first family grief counseling session. DH was just given a pretty gloomy prognosis and we are starting to see a counselor as a famipy to help us all deal with it.
We did all go to lunch after and I came home to a cute froggy mylar balloon, a card and a vase with buterfingers in it instead of flowers. The man knows me so well.
I bought DH a card, devilish monky stuffed animal, a chocolate rose and a digital character pack for a game coming out in April. I liked the idea of giving him something to look forward to besides medical treatments.
For my kids I put together baggys with an owl sucker, a lip sucker, a pack of gum, play dough in thier favorite colors and a travel monkeys in a barrel game.
Um...ok. So he can't even bother to sign a card to his wife on Valentine's Day. Did he at least write your name on the envelope?
Sorry for the flack you're getting, OP, from some of the posters about your DH not signing your card. Good grief. He took the time to buy flowers, chocolates and a card, and even chocolates for your Mom. I give a big for his efforts!!
declansdad said:Really, who gives a card without signing it? Come on.
Get over it. It's not like the OP's DH gave you the unsigned card. It's really none of your business. Cripes.
OP, your DH is sweet. I'm glad you had a nice Valentine's Day!
Fine, you're not used to it. No problem.
But. The OP comes on here to share the great things her DH got her for Valentine's Day, and people are being snarky (and a couple were rude IMO) about him not signing the card. Good grief.
declansdad said:Why does it bother you so much?
Well I spent Valentines morning in our first family grief counseling session. DH was just given a pretty gloomy prognosis and we are starting to see a counselor as a famipy to help us all deal with it.
We did all go to lunch after and I came home to a cute froggy mylar balloon, a card and a vase with buterfingers in it instead of flowers. The man knows me so well.
I bought DH a card, devilish monky stuffed animal, a chocolate rose and a digital character pack for a game coming out in April. I liked the idea of giving him something to look forward to besides medical treatments.
For my kids I put together baggys with an owl sucker, a lip sucker, a pack of gum, play dough in thier favorite colors and a travel monkeys in a barrel game.
I do think its kind of odd to come here with pics and prtty much brag on what you got for V day. I'm sure there are plenty that got nothing. My DH treated me nicely with gifts and a surprise trip but I wouldn't come here starting a thread complete with pics. And yes, weird the card wasn't signed.
I do think its kind of odd to come here with pics and prtty much brag on what you got for V day. I'm sure there are plenty that got nothing. My DH treated me nicely with gifts and a surprise trip but I wouldn't come here starting a thread complete with pics. And yes, weird the card wasn't signed.
Why does it bother YOU so much? You have added nothing nice to this thread. The OP did not come here to have people hound her and her husband for having an unsigned card. Maybe, just maybe, that's their thing. Who are you to make them feel bad for doing something that doesn't set right with you? I'm sorry I'm being a tad harsh, but I think the OP has had enough, and that goes for everyone else who was being critical.
I think most people start an occasional thread that someone else might think it odd. Just skip it. Why be snarky/rude to the OP about it. Just skip the thread and move on.
The OP has posted stuff that was unbelievable in the past. This fits the same pattern.
Not trying to be rude, nor do I know the history here ....but if you and others are followers of OP's threads, know the pattern, why waste time and energy reading or replying 11 times . Honestly, imo, life is too short to keep track of strangers on any internet board.
My heart goes out to you and your family. It sounds like you married a prince! What a loving family!
"Come on" is right. I bet kayrosek could give you a lesson in what is important in life and what isn't.
I agree with MIGrandma. For goodness sake, maybe it's unusual for a person to not sign a card. That was established on Page 1. Why the need for some to continue with the remarks?
Because of past things I have read, I have a hard time believing it.
Hugs to you kayrosek.
Kennywife, thank you for sharing your Valentine photos. Sounds like you have a very thoughtful hubbie and had a lovey day...
your Mom too.
Dis friends, please, I can't believe some of your comments . Who are we to judge, we all have different strokes . Geez, if we can't say something good, why say anything at all ~ specially on a Disney board.
At any rate, for whoever cares ~ I had a wonderful Valentine's Day . I was spoiled by my DH, kids & grands, with flowers, candy, luncheon outing, and for our 49th V.day together, we chose take out Italian, so we could have romatic dinner at home . I gave DH an Air Force cap, his fave candy and nuts.
Lordie, I'm not about to post photos of our gifts , not sure my skin is thick enough for this play ground . Just my 2cents, kinda sad some have nothing better to do than to question/criticize people's good intentions.
*kayrosek, Hugs and prayers to you and yours . *cheekypoppins, love your creative cake!
What an awesome day you had!!!!! :group hug: Sounds just lovely.
Love the cake cheekypoppins! Hugs to you kayrosek and also MIGrandma!
So sorry to hear about your DH. I am sending good thoughts your way
Thank you all for the hugs and good thoughts. I appreciate them more than I can express.I'm so sorry..Thinking of you and your family
cheekypoppins.. Awesome cake. Wish I had a piece right about now.
Not trying to be rude, nor do I know the history here ....but if you and others are followers of OP's threads, know the pattern, why waste time and energy reading or replying 11 times . Honestly, imo, life is too short to keep track of strangers on any internet board.
Not trying to be rude, nor do I know the history here ....but if you and others are followers of OP's threads, know the pattern, why waste time and energy reading or replying 11 times . Honestly, imo, life is too short to keep track of strangers on any internet board.