Wishing on a star
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- Aug 7, 2002
Yes, hang on to the notes... If this becoomes an ongoing problem, you may be glad that you did... And definitely monitor everything and every type of communication of your sons! Document the dates, etc...
I would not really want to let it go... but you have no other option unless you want to be seen being involved. Unless you, as the parent, bring it to the schools attention, it is not something that the school can do anything about. Just hearsay...
The reason that I would want to do something is that our children should have the right to go to school without being harassed.... Bullying, Sexual Harassment, or otherwise.
If this girl is continuing to do this, with your son clearly having told her to lay off, that he is not interested... Then, this is a problem. Your son is having to go into that classroom every day... Things like this can go too far and have a real and negative impact. I think you need to continue to have a positive and ongoing communication with your son about this.
Has your son agreed to tell her to lay off???
I would make no assumptions regarding your son's innocence.
I would advise my son that the very next time she hands him a note that he not even unfold it and read it... Walk over to the nearest trash can, and very meticulously and purposefully tear it into strips and throw it in. Being rejected like that should be enough to get this girl to end it yesterday!!!
I would not really want to let it go... but you have no other option unless you want to be seen being involved. Unless you, as the parent, bring it to the schools attention, it is not something that the school can do anything about. Just hearsay...
The reason that I would want to do something is that our children should have the right to go to school without being harassed.... Bullying, Sexual Harassment, or otherwise.
If this girl is continuing to do this, with your son clearly having told her to lay off, that he is not interested... Then, this is a problem. Your son is having to go into that classroom every day... Things like this can go too far and have a real and negative impact. I think you need to continue to have a positive and ongoing communication with your son about this.
Has your son agreed to tell her to lay off???
I would make no assumptions regarding your son's innocence.
I would advise my son that the very next time she hands him a note that he not even unfold it and read it... Walk over to the nearest trash can, and very meticulously and purposefully tear it into strips and throw it in. Being rejected like that should be enough to get this girl to end it yesterday!!!