SplshMtn99
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- Joined
- Jun 11, 2000
He's coming around & being more himself lately...but he's really turned into a jerk of a patient. The word I want to use is not allowed on the DIS. I'm sure the nurses are used to people like this.....but I still feel bad for them.
I know where his hostility & anger is coming from, but it doesn't make it any easier to listen to.
He's not in control on the situation...and that for sure pisses him off. He doesn't know what's going on or when he'll be able to go home. He went in for a routine 2 hr colonoscopy...and a week later he's still lying in bed there after having part of colon removed since they found cancer. He hasn't drank fluids since Wed....or eaten in 9 days. THIS does not fit into his plans. THIS interferes with his schedule & ability to get the boat into the water for his charter fishing business. (I need to remind him he's 75 & supposed to be retired again.)
And right now, we won't even mention the prostate cancer they found 2 wks before this one.
Yes...he's angry. Those poor nurses & doctors. The stuff he was telling me he has been snapping at them about.....I'm just embarrased to be related to him right now. I grew up being yelled at & watching verbal/physical abuse towards my mom & knowing when to duck & hide to avoid. The poor people don't know him.
I know where his hostility & anger is coming from, but it doesn't make it any easier to listen to.
He's not in control on the situation...and that for sure pisses him off. He doesn't know what's going on or when he'll be able to go home. He went in for a routine 2 hr colonoscopy...and a week later he's still lying in bed there after having part of colon removed since they found cancer. He hasn't drank fluids since Wed....or eaten in 9 days. THIS does not fit into his plans. THIS interferes with his schedule & ability to get the boat into the water for his charter fishing business. (I need to remind him he's 75 & supposed to be retired again.)
And right now, we won't even mention the prostate cancer they found 2 wks before this one.
Yes...he's angry. Those poor nurses & doctors. The stuff he was telling me he has been snapping at them about.....I'm just embarrased to be related to him right now. I grew up being yelled at & watching verbal/physical abuse towards my mom & knowing when to duck & hide to avoid. The poor people don't know him.