Hear, hear! I am also hopeful that we, as parents, will be grateful for the health and happiness of our children, and endeavor to show that gratitude every day. Already, I hug my children tighter. Try to love them more. I watch them with vigilance in the bathtub too - something I always THOUGHT I did...but not to the level I now understand is necessary. I want so much for some positives to come from this tragedy too.