Well I can't speak for others, but for us the reservation is before 7pm which is the MVMCP official start time, so although we will be out of dinner later than 7pm, I had no plans to beat the system and do plan to leave when I'm done eating. Now will I be walking down Main st. to leave and maybe see some activity? Of course, but I don't plan to try to sneak on rides or hang out. I respect that people paid extra to be there and that I will have my turn on my paid for ticket night.
My decision was more over the crowds going to the bus and using valuable time as efficiently as I can. And from what I understand the CMs (Cast members) do watch to make sure people have wrist bands. I imagine more strictly than EMHs(extra magic hours) cause when I was there some years ago, my son and I stayed in the parks since we were resort guests but never did find anyone to get our EMHs wrist bands from. and no one asked us about it. I would hope with MVMCP they do watch better.
I'm so happy to hear your kids can go with the flow with you. It's nice to have a happy family unit enjoying the vacation. My son has special needs so going with the flow isn't easy for him. Life has to be more planned. Love him but it will be nice to get the chance to do things different for a week.
Some laugh when they see my spreadsheet. Especially when time slots have more than one park location listed for a specific time. For me it's more a reference to options so I don't miss anything.
Ok off to go shopping. I made a list of things to pack from referencing another thread, so I think I'm going to go pick up a few things that I can get into my suitcase for future use. LOL Nothing wrong with packing what you don't need now.