Don't feel guilty and enjoy. My daughter has a genetic syndrome that is way less intense than a ton of others that I have seen recieve a wish. But the things she has went through and the things to come...sigh. We were told she qualified when she was 3, she is now 5.5. One thing with our wish project is that they changed who qualifies for a wish through them. They now include kids with complex medical issues, kids that have spent many, many days in hospitals, not just life threatening (although Elsa's can very quickly be if not monitored). Just looking at her, you wouldn't know that she has anything "special" about her. But when I tell people that have known her that she is getting a wish granted, they get tears in their eyes, knowing that she deserves it. But as it gets closer, I am starting to have second thoughts, like do we really deserve this?? Agh!