ssawka
DIS Veteran
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- Oct 30, 2007
Thank you to all for the input. My issues with spending are to get my family what they need. Yes there have been trips but I wanted my daughter to experience WDW before she gets to school and they frown upon you taking a child out of the classes. She is extremely bright and I just wanted her to have what I could give her. Anyway, I am very money aware where my DH spends and has no reguard for anything I have talked to him about. I have made countless budgets and gone over them with him. I opened a separate account for him to use for his smoking and fast food spending. No matter what I do or say he never supports nor helps cut back. His hobbies are anything with wheels and motors so nothing there is cheap. Our marriage has one huge problem and it is money. I was just looking for ways to cut back on household items since I do not get help from DH. I am going to a financial counseling session this week and looking into refi my mortgage. I normally am very good with finances but I am losing a battle with no help or changes from the spouse. He is the problem because he feels he earns his money so he can spend it how he wants. I do not like cc debt and we are carrying some and we owe my mother some money. We are not dire at all i am just looking for suggestions as to how to cut back when all my husband says is cut back the auto insurance. With our luck the moment I do something will happen so I was looking at unneccessary bills. I do shop Aldi and use coupons when I find them and buy majority of my DD and I clothes on clearance when needed.
Once again thank you to all and hope some of this backround helps clarify
Sorry if this thread has been derailed, but I just wanted to say to be careful on how far you push your husband. While I agree that carrying a CC debt is a bit much and dangerous, do not ask him to give up his hobbies and interest. Cutting back is fine, but take it from a guy, if you ask him to give up his hobbies and interests all together he will become resentful and will view you as controlling. Just my 2₵!