I think Jodi had stalkerish behaviors, as in she was always going after him, wouldn't stop calling him, looking at his stuff, and eventually slashing tires. I don't think most things would necessarily be anything legally valid, except the tire slashing. I also think that she had threatened him with telling people about THEIR activities together at some point (and I think she finally went for the documentation of it with that tape to use against him) and that's why he felt that he couldn't or wouldn't call the police. JMHO. I also think that "stalking" is a matter of interpretation. He may have felt he was "stalking" him as in being annoying (which I think is what his big issues were with her) but not that she was so obsessed she'd kill him. So while he may have gotten annoyed with her along the way for her behavior, she was putting out what he wanted, when he wanted it.
Jodi reminds me of a scene I saw at a zoo. Female lion kept crawling under the male lion, who seemed totally disinterested, and finally gave him. It was quite interesting, and boy, were those two loud!
I'm not saying that Travis wasn't interested in the sex and gave into the sex...I think Travis wasn't interested in a real relationship with her, but she did keep offering up what he did want. And honestly, he was a 30 yr old man who was supposed to be staying a virgin, was involved in the Mormon church and behaved openly Mormon, but had this person who was ready, willing and able, and was open to EVERYTHING. So she may have been annoying and getting into his emails and whatever else, and they fought about it, but hey, he wanted sex, she handed it over.
Certainly, no doubt about it, they had a dysfunctional relationship.
Do we know when the tire slashing incidents were? Maybe she talked her way out of that with him, but his friends felt convinced it was her.
I know someone who I think is creepy...just creepy...and I didn't like the way he LOOKED at my kids, and I know his mother was sexually molested and therefore maybe he had been. If I found out he sexually molested someone, I would not be surprised. But there was nothing I could call the police about.