branv
<font color=blue>The safety feature in my parents
- Joined
- May 20, 2005
Frankly, if someone is truly your BFF, a person should be able to tell them their troubles and they can come to a resolution together. And If I really care about someone, I would never have allowed them to go into painful debt for the sake of my wedding. How joyful is a wedding if someone has to suffer because of it? If I wanted them there that badly and I had the money, I would have covered a wedding members (or perhaps a guest that couldn't afford to travel) costs. If I the bride/groom couldn't afford that AND my friend couldn't afford that, then we would just have to accept that we were both in the same place and give each other an out. It would be sad, but being a friend means being compassionate and understanding on both sides. If the groom is really his BFF, and this person can swing renting the tux without a big loan, then the groom should be understanding and happy to have them simply be a part of the wedding without all the added extras of the bachelor party/gift.
So no, I wouldn't take a loan if it was attached to this much stress. And anyone I call a BF would never want me to do so.
I also agree that option #4 is AWFUL. What kind of person would take a loan from someone then cop such resentment? They don't deserve any help if that's their attitude.
So no, I wouldn't take a loan if it was attached to this much stress. And anyone I call a BF would never want me to do so.
I also agree that option #4 is AWFUL. What kind of person would take a loan from someone then cop such resentment? They don't deserve any help if that's their attitude.