becka
<font color=green>Proud Mommy of sweet Nathan and
- Joined
- Aug 17, 1999
DH says that he wants to take me on a Disney Cruise for our anniversary (and as a reward for working so hard on my weight loss) next May. We would do the 4 day cruise and leave DS with my parents for the time we are gone.
Sounds great right? Well I am feeling guilty even thinking about it. I know that he would probably not enjoy the cruise at his age (he will have just turned 2) and would probably have much more fun with grandma and grandpa. I also realize that it wouldn't be a very romantic, relaxing trip for us if he is with us as well. I have to admit that a relaxing trip sounds like so much fun. Going to the spa, staying up late dancing, having a few drinks, relaxing by the pool, eating in a nice restaurant without having to cut up someone else's food and then pick it up off the floor, etc..
We had to cancel our planned Feb trip to WDW (with DS) for a number of reasons and I am still kind of bummed about it. I really wanted to share WDW with DS and I keep thinking that we should just scrap plans for the cruise and take him to WDW for a few days. However, I worry that it will just be too much for him to handle for so few days. I don't want to overwhelm and exhaust him. Our original WDW trip plans called for a little over a week so we could take it easy. This trip will have to be fast and I don't know if he would react well with such a short trip. I think it might be exhausting for all of us.
I thought about inviting someone else to go with us who could watch DS while we have some alone time but my Mom and MIL don't do "boats", my sister and I don't get along besides the fact that she has a little girl, works full-time and goes to law school at night, DH's brother would not be interested and our regular babysitters are friends of ours who are older and married, etc. so they are not an option.
I also just feel so plain selfish. I know parents deserve time to themselves but DH and I really get quite a bit of time alone together since DS is such a great sleeper and is in bed by 7 PM almost every night. It is not like we never have alone time. Plus what if we go and then I am miserable missing DS. I will see all these other families having a great time and then feel terrible that I left my baby home.
Does anyone else have these feelings? How did you deal with them?
Sounds great right? Well I am feeling guilty even thinking about it. I know that he would probably not enjoy the cruise at his age (he will have just turned 2) and would probably have much more fun with grandma and grandpa. I also realize that it wouldn't be a very romantic, relaxing trip for us if he is with us as well. I have to admit that a relaxing trip sounds like so much fun. Going to the spa, staying up late dancing, having a few drinks, relaxing by the pool, eating in a nice restaurant without having to cut up someone else's food and then pick it up off the floor, etc..
We had to cancel our planned Feb trip to WDW (with DS) for a number of reasons and I am still kind of bummed about it. I really wanted to share WDW with DS and I keep thinking that we should just scrap plans for the cruise and take him to WDW for a few days. However, I worry that it will just be too much for him to handle for so few days. I don't want to overwhelm and exhaust him. Our original WDW trip plans called for a little over a week so we could take it easy. This trip will have to be fast and I don't know if he would react well with such a short trip. I think it might be exhausting for all of us.
I thought about inviting someone else to go with us who could watch DS while we have some alone time but my Mom and MIL don't do "boats", my sister and I don't get along besides the fact that she has a little girl, works full-time and goes to law school at night, DH's brother would not be interested and our regular babysitters are friends of ours who are older and married, etc. so they are not an option.
I also just feel so plain selfish. I know parents deserve time to themselves but DH and I really get quite a bit of time alone together since DS is such a great sleeper and is in bed by 7 PM almost every night. It is not like we never have alone time. Plus what if we go and then I am miserable missing DS. I will see all these other families having a great time and then feel terrible that I left my baby home.
Does anyone else have these feelings? How did you deal with them?