Yea I am not surprised about Derek. He is young and has gotten a taste of freedom and independance and he is sowing his oats. He will change when he gets older but it is good that he can experience life now while he is young. Everyone is different in their priorities so I hope he has a good time and finds something he enjoys doing later in life. And like you said BONUS cuz you all get to go on your trip!!
As for us things seem to change daily but I talked to mom at lunch and we are now thinking about moving our november trip to June. Mom didn't want to have no plans for this summer and obviously I didn't either as I SO need a break but I was willing to forgo it for whatever it took to get mom back going again. But we have decided that if she is able to have the surgery before june which I REALLY hope she does then even if she is not fully recovered almost everything we do in So Cal she can get a scooter or wheelchair and even if she hasn't had it yet again we can rent those things and that is the one vacay that is fairly doable for her. There is no point even thinking about NY till she can get around better so we have pushed that back to 17 now and hopefully it actually happens someday!
Then in November she has 2 weeks that she already paid for on her timeshare that she has to use (we bought them for the aulanni but never got in). So we may use 1 week to go to vegas over Thanksgiving. She is not enthused to go back I really want to see the Grand Canyon and I have only been to vegas once and would love to go back and see some shows and all the fun hotels. So hopefully I can convince her but then for our other week we are hopefully going to finally get back to DW next June. We would use our timeshare for a week and just go to the parks 1 day each and then a few days at US and then possibly do a Royal Carribean cruise at the end of the week. Then mom and I would probably buy AP's and go back that November for food and wine.
As always all of this is speculative but at least all of these trips she can get a wheelchair or scooter if she still needs it by then and nothing would have to be cancelled.
But for now we are looking at at least getting some rooms booked for june since that is a busy time and the 60th will be in full swing by th'men.
Once the rooms are booked and we buy our tixs I will feel like it is actually going to happen and then I can start getting excited