As you can tell, from a few previous posts, I will have yours as a seperate FE entry. Since we closed it at the first of the year only those that are still working on them can add another family. When I know who is doing what I will send you a list so that you know who is including you and your family. How old is the brother?
As far as the wheelchair question, on our NYE 2010 cruise we took my mother's wheelchair. She could walk short distances, but we used it quite a bit. We started out storing it in our hallway in the room, but soon switched to keeping it just outside the stateroom door whenever we were in the room and at night. A lot of people with strollers did the same thing. The servers in the dining room would find somewhere to put it while we ate so that she was able to sit more comfortably in the dining chair. The main issue for us was elevators. Sometimes people are pushy and it can take a couple of waits to get on an elevator. The midship elevators are the worst, so if you are able to go to the forward or aft elevators, they are not as crowded. But there are still a lot of good people out there that are courteous for wheelchairs and the handicapped. I look forward to meeting Hayden. Two of my children that will be with me are handicapped. They are both adult now, but they are very special to me. Clay is spina bifida and we will be leaving his wheelchair (which we use at WDW) at home since he will have 3 of his siblings to hang on to. He will probably have his cane, he just has to take things slow and be able to hold on to something or someone. Kati is cerebral palsy and it is a job to keep up with her. Her main disability is speech and fine motor control.
Back to the wheelchair. Depending on which excursions you take if any, there are alot that do not allow for wheelchairs, be sure and double check on those.
As far as the FE, I will keep up with who can add you (my two rooms will be able to) and sometime later tonight or tomorrow, I will send you the document which will give you the details.
I will need your family info (ages of boys and y'alls names) plus your stateroom number.
Again, welcome can't wait to meet on the cruise and visit here on the board. Ask any questions you need, someone will probably know the answer.