Judique
Dis Veteran, Beach Lover at BWV, BCV, HHI, VB
- Joined
- Aug 1, 2003
You need to let it go. Once you give something to someone, you give up any rights to dictate what they do with it. Would you donate clothes to Good Will or any other charity with the stipulation that the person buying the clothes should also donate them when they are outgrown?
I agree with this.
Best to just give it and forget it.
You can bypass them by donating elsewhere, but they are still family. If they are using the items at least once after you have used them, you have helped somebody.
And, after some time has passed, they may get tired of keeping the extra clutter around also!