I forgot to mention his tube surgery!
It actually happened a day earlier than anticipated due to a scheduling error on the Dr's part. It's funny that such a small change sent me into an emotional tizzy! You never want your kid going "under (even if it's a mild form of anesthesia)" and your mind goes everywhere. The wondering if this is a good thing for him or not crossed my mind a million times. It was just TUBES! The kid has had two open heart surgeries for crying out loud... Yes, I need intervention....
Anyway, it took FOREVER for the "goofy juice" to kick in. The dr kept coming by, checking his watch (seemingly impatiently), waiting to take him to the OR. The nurse was amazed at his resilience! He watched a movie for a while and, then it happened. He looked at the pulse ox on his thumb for a second, held it up a little closer and then YELLED at it! Like it was a microphone! Then, the nurse asked him his name and how old he was. Oh, that was super-funny. He wasn't as "goofy" as we had hoped (for our entertainment purposes
), but at least it was working. Sadly, after they came to roll him into the OR, I could hear him yelling, "I want MOMMY!"
He did great. The dr came out to let us know how he did and give us the antibiotic drops to administer over the next week. When the orderly came out to take us to recovery, he had this look on his face when he said, "He's awake." It was one of those, "Oh my gosh. Come get your child!" looks. I said, "Oh yeah?" He said, "He's awaaaake." Ha. Sure enough, I heard his yell as soon as the door opened and E was all the way around on the other side! He was NOT happy. They warned he might be agitated. Yeah, they were right! He still had his IV in (normally, no IV is required, but they put one in b/c of his cardiac status, just in case). I wasn't expecting that it would still be there. He wanted it OUT. The nurse kept saying they'd do it when we transferred to the other floor but she ended up pulling it b/c he would NOT stop crying about it. He was kind of incoherently mumbling/crying. She needed to hold pressure and he did NOT like that so she gave me his arm to let me do it. He didn't like that, either and was wailing. Wailing = higher bp = more bleeding. Yeeesh. That took a bit but he was distracted some by the orange popsicle that magically appeared. He just wasn't himself at all. We got the fastpass transfer to floor 2 (discharge).
In 2, he calmed down a bit more. The room was darkened and they brought him some cookies and a BLUE slushie (his fav color). I was impressed! We didn't get to enjoy such perks when he was a heart baby
. Well, he was ready to go HOME and didn't care about that stuff. So, we headed out. Well, then he cried b/c he wanted to go BACK in!
This was his typical "I want the opposite of what you think I want" response, but a little more agitated. I was holding him when we got to the foyer of the children's hospital (cool butterflies, big tree and a caterpillar to climb on) and he wiggled down. I thought he was going to the tree but he did a 180, barefoot, ditched his Buzz Lightyear lunchbox (threw it) and ran for the elevators!!! Much to any spectator's dismay, I had to RUN after him b/c that kid is FAST!! I snatched him up and he proceeded to beat the snot out of me! He was ANGRY and it hurt! My husband was being the pack mule so he had his hands full. I just took it and we headed out. In the parking lot, I had to give up and trade with DH. E started on his poor dad. We got to the car, opened the sliding door for E to get in and he ran to the other side and proceeded to push the button to open THAT door in an effort to escape! WOW! I grabbed him and DH locked the door. He then sat and screamed, "I want to go back IN!" Then, he tried to bite DH! When that didn't work, he bit his own thumb, HARD! He yelled a little more. I was sure security was going to come for us at any moment
.
Finally, I got him into my lap where he cried softly yet still tried to fight. We pulled to the ticket window and paid for our parking and then pulled around to an adjacent lot so I could snuggle him til he was ready to be put into his car seat. That finally happened and in less than 5 minutes, he was sleeping. He continued to sleep once we got home and woke up our normal and happy Ethan. Oh my goodness. I declared, right then and there, if this happens again (his tubes fall out prematurely), we are hiring stand-in parents until the post-surgery nap is over!!
Now, back to trip planning!!!
I forgot that I had read Owen's report before and I remembered quickly just how awesome it was! This time, Ethan sat in my lap and pored over all the pictures. This was good and bad. His dad is lamenting in the other room b/c Ethan clearly stated he would NOT be seeing any Star Wars characters or super heroes b/c they are "scawwy." I had hoped he'd see how Owen interacted with them and that it would show him they are not scary at all, but it did not change his mind at all. He loves pretending to be these guys but he doesn't even want to meet Sully and Mike (GASP!) b/c "Sully has teeth and horns."
Monsters, Inc has been one of his favorite movies. Stitch was a "no" too! What?? Oh man.....
He does have a list of those he wants to "Give hug and a high 5 to": Toy Story (especially Buzz, Woody and Jessie), Mickey and his gang, Princesses, Winnie the Pooh and his friends (is there a way to see them without doing a character meal??), Handy Manny, Oso, June (from Little Einsteins), and Jake. One of the keys to this is the characters' expression. If he/she is smiling, they are golden. He was adamant that he would NOT be seeing the Grinch but would love a picture with the Cat in the Hat.
We have been worried if this trip was too soon. My husband (Dillon) is really thinking about this, saying, "Next year, he's going to kick himself b/c he didn't want to see any of his super heroes and Star Wars guys." I'm already feeling "Wish picker's guilt" as it is, wondering if we should have waited til Ethan was older. This isn't helping!!
He's super excited about all the ice cream he's going to eat- and the trains at GKTW. I know he's going to have a BLAST but I can't help but wonder if we should have waited.
OH WELL! Can't spend time fretting about that. We can't change our minds now, so ON WITH THE PLANNING!!
This post is too long so I'll give y'all time to catch up before posting again