Darcy03231
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- Nov 1, 2006
DD just got married last fall. I'm divorced from her father and remarried and DSIL's parents are divorced. DSIL escorted his mother down the aisle before taking his place at the alter.
The mothers of the bride and groom are typically escorted by the groomsmen to their seats prior to the groom the officiant and the groomsmen walking to the front together. The mother of the groom is seated first, then the mother of the bride. The groomsman typically walk back to the officiant and the groom and then all walk in as a group. Who seats whom is up to the groomsmen. On the way out it's Bride and Groom, then the wedding party, then the parents/family. There will be no escort for the way out.Hi all. My son is getting married later this year and his dad and I are divorced. It was a nasty divorce and I more or less hate the man. Anyway, I was wondering if anyone has dealt with a son getting married. I'm not sure who would walk me down the aisle at the beginning and end. My other two boys are in the wedding so I was thinking that one could walk me down at the start and then join the rest of the groomsmen in the front and the other could come back at the end and escort me out. Would this be appropriate or how did you handle it?
Thanks for your thoughts, everyone. We decided to just go for it and transfer mid-trip to stay on-site. We found a great Hotwire deal for Pop Century that is going to actually save us money. Also, FYI, for anyone interested, when I spoke with someone from Disney on the phone, they told me that it wouldn't be a problem for us to use Magical Express after dropping off our rental car. She gave me the number to call and said we would just need to call and set it up after dropping off the car.
The mothers of the bride and groom are typically escorted by the groomsmen to their seats prior to the groom the officiant and the groomsmen walking to the front together. The mother of the groom is seated first, then the mother of the bride. The groomsman typically walk back to the officiant and the groom and then all walk in as a group. Who seats whom is up to the groomsmen. On the way out it's Bride and Groom, then the wedding party, then the parents/family. There will be no escort for the way out.
As for you and your ex, you loved each other enough to have the kid, so love the kid enough to behave.
I think it’s fine to have whoever you prefer to escort you to in, provided the bride and groom don’t mind. Could be any of your sons, including the groom, could be another groomsman, could be another male relative (maybe your brother?). Or, you could walk alone. There are many variations of new and traditional wedding customs these days. I wouldn’t worry about It.
I think the point is...who does the son and bride want to have walk her down the aisle. I'd do whatever they preferred...if they prefer I walk on my own; then I walk on my own...the logistic decisions are not for the OP to make...they're up to the couple.Nowhere did she say anything about not being civil? The question seems to be one of logistics and she wants to just know what's appropriate or how others handled walking down the aisle.
Yeah, I hope you didn't overpay your wedding planner. Sounds like a slight lack of attention to detail.I like the matching tux idea.
It reminded me that my mom picked out her dress so carefully, and as we walked down the aisle she was still wearing her zipped up winter coat and carrying a humongous purse. That added to our width.
Nobody said anything about not behaving, not sure if you think I'm trying to make my kid's wedding into some white trash hillbilly party. I just wanted to know the etiquette of a divorced mom walking down the aisle.
Yeah, I hope you didn't overpay your wedding planner. Sounds like a slight lack of attention to detail.
Yeah, I hope you didn't overpay your wedding planner. Sounds like a slight lack of attention to detail.
Then there's the MOB dresses. At DD's autumn wedding, the bride assigned colours to everybody who would be in the pictures. Me being the step-mom got the last possible choice - orange. At least if we had been the parents of the groom all I would have had to do was "wear beige and keep my mouth shut".
Just curious...why wouldn’t you just have the bride and groom instruct you what to do and not even mention it? It truly is about 30 seconds of the entire day. This wouldn’t even be on my radar.I think it will be best to have one of my other boys walk me down and since it's not in a church I don't think there will be the big processional out so I'm not going to worry about that.