Here's some info I've posted a bunch of times now. Maybe it will help. Also, I left St Augustine there in case you're interested. I haven't been to Cocoa beach, but Bernards ia an excellent restuarant.
http://www.BERNARDSSURF.COM/
Daytona Beach
We've only been during off season, but we went during Memorial Day week this year and it wasn't really crowded, but there was a lot going on with people para sailing and bungee bouncing or whatever it's called on the pier, nice Summer beach vibe.
For hotels, I'd ONLY recommend the Hilton
http://www.daytonahilton.com/contactus.htm
and the Ocean Walk Resort, which has 2 indoor pools and the outdoor pool has a lazy river, a slide and a great kiddie pool with it's own slides and tunnels, etc. (We're staying 3 nights during Thanksgiving week for the Turkey Run car show, I can't wait!)
http://www.oceanwalk.com/
which has the Ocean Walk village connected to it with restaurants, a Bubba Gumps, a mexican place, and a movie theater. It's so nice to have everything within walking distance.
http://www.oceanwalkvillage.com/home.html
The speedway is fun. It has been awhile, but we loved taking the tour where you get to go on the track and walk on the bank
http://www.daytonaintlspeedway.com/
The Marine Science Center is a neat little place, only takes an hour or two and it's like $5 to get in. It's right next to the lighthouse.
http://echotourism.com/msc/
The lighthouse at Ponce Inlet is neat
http://www.ponceinlet.org/
and there is a nice restaurant there called Down the Hatch where you can watch sailboats and the most beautiful sun sets and another called The Inlet Harbor
http://www.inletharbor.com/
There is a chocolate factory, but we've never been.
http://www.angellandphelps.com/
We love to just walk around the board walk, eat taffy, ride the bumper cars, the sky lift, play in the arcades and sit on the pier at the outdoor restaurant. It has that tacky old carnival feel to it, but it's fun. There's music on the weekends at the BandShell next to the pier, but we've always missed it.
http://virtualvolusia.com/Pier1.html
http://www.bandshell.org/
There is a new water park that we haven't been to yet
http://daytonalagoon.com/
There's also a dog track. When we go with extended family, the guys like to get together and go. It's a little seedy, LOL.
http://www.dbkennelclub.com/information.htm
Our favorite restaurant is the Ocean Deck. It has a great view of the ocean.
http://www.oceandeck.com/
The Oyster Pub is a sports bar, great for snacks, and if you're looking for somewhere to watch your "can't miss" football game. (They have a room and big screen just for Steelers fans, it's a blast!) The website is usually messed up
http://www.oysterpub.com/
For breakfast Steve's Famous Diner is good, and Billy's Tap Room is awesome, a little pricey but worth it and Aunt Catfishs is Southern style comfort food, kid friendly type of place.
http://www.billys-tap.com/
http://www.auntcatfish.com/
St Augustine
Besides the guided city tours, haunted tours and the "oldest" school, house, jail...everything tours, LOL, and the great shopping in the quaint stores along the cobble stone streets, we've done
The Alligator Farm which is fun. We liked Gator Land in Orlando a little more.
http://www.alligatorfarm.com/
We've done this chocolate factory tour. It's free and only takes about 45 minutes.
http://www.whetstonechocolates.com/
Loved this winery. They had some wonderful homemade grape juice for the kids too.
http://www.sansebastianwinery.com/
We haven't taken the lighthouse tour yet, but it looks like one of the most picturesque ones.
http://www.staugustinelighthouse.com/
Marine Land is now closed, and that's a good thing. Hopefully they will refurbish it. It has a lot of neat history, but it was not worth the money.
This cruise was a blast. We saw some dolphins and the captain let ds steer the boat for quite awhile.
http://www.scenic-cruise.com/
There are tons of neat little restaurants in town, but one of our favorites is Harry's, it's a lot like Pat O'Brian's. We like to sit in the courtyard.
http://www.hookedonharrys.com/
Creekside Dinery has great seafood and a nice outside deck with a fire pit. Owned by the same people as Salt Water Cowboys, but this place seems a little less touristy.
http://www.creeksidedinery.com/rest.html
The Oasis is a casual place, good for breakfast
http://www.worldfamousoasis.com/
The Sunset Grill is pretty good
http://www.sunsetgrillea1a.com/
My favorite is The Beachcomer, which doesn't have a website, but it's an itty bitty barefoot picnic table type of place right on the beach, and it's a fun place to get some oysters or peel and eat shrimp.
My in-laws just moved from there and we used to stay with them, so I can't really recommend a hotel. There are some great looking B&B's in the heart of the city, but if you wanted to stay on the beach, I'd recommend a condo. It seems like most of the hotels are across the street from the beach. We did stay at Anastasia condos once and they were nice.
http://www.staugustine.com/visit/ac...s/lodging.shtml
Have fun planning!