Rainman415
Earning My Ears
- Joined
- Jun 6, 2011
I also have one of those BIL. He has lived with pretty much everyone in the family at least once, until he wears out his welcome. Last November once again he has been fired from his job, recently divorced and no longer has a place to live. So what do I say to my husband??? It's cold out and almost Christmas honey...we can't let him live on the street. My husband says we will regret it but I say, we can't turn away family. Well guess who was right?? He told us when he moved in that it's just for 6 weeks so he can get another job and save money for rent. Every day all he does is watch tv. Well 4 months later we confront him and let him know he has one month to find a job and a place to live. He tells us he doesn't have to take us talking to him like that. So we tell him you have a choice....find a job or go. He chose to pack his things and leave right then. Then he goes in the garage and calls my husband out there and threatens to beat him up....lol.....mind you they are both in their early 40's. Then he gets in his car and instead of saying thanks for giving me a place to live for free....he proceeds to flip off my husband all the way down the block for all my neighbors to see. This has been going on for at least 20 years. No one can help him. He must help himself. Of course he believes that none of this is his fault, and says we blame him for everything. So he immediately moves to Nashville to make it big in the music industry, find a job and within 2 weeks is fired again. Again, not his fault. There's so much I could go on for weeks. This person is no longer welcome in my home. I don't want him around my children. I fear he will be living like this for the rest of his days. It's sad, but until he takes responsibility for his actions, he will continue to live this way. OP....you are doing the right thing.