I find the majority here thinking it's a stupid rule to be so interesting. As I posted previously, DSs attend a private school with the same haircut guidelines for boys as the Texas school. No one thinks about it (until the dean tells you to get a haircut
), it's not controversial, and it's just the school's rule. I checked other local school dress codes, and 3 of the top 5 private schools in Atlanta have similar boy hair provisions in their dress codes. You want your child to go to one of these schools, you cut their hair. I haven't heard of any protests. Most parents I know would give their kids green mohawks to get their kids in these schools if that was the requirement.
I then wondered if the boy haircut rule is a Southern thing so I checked out private school dress codes around the US this afternoon (obviously, I have procrastinated about cleaning the house today
). I found plenty of private schools from Arizona to Washington to Connecticut to Florida that have similar haircut guidelines for boys. So, boy haircut guidelines appear to be not uncommon in the world of elite, prep schools. (Of course, I know there are MANY, MANY private schools without haircut guidelines
so no one needs to start posting examples).
As for the reasoning behind the haircut rule, many here have discussed the distraction issue. Fyi, some private schools justify the rule on the basis that the student represents the school, in and out of school. (Fwiw, private school conduct codes (which can cover off campus activities such as drinking) are also based on the same idea that the child represents the school at all times).
I think the public school aspect of the 4 year old in Texas is significant. If I don't like the haircut code, I send my kids to a different private school. With public school, the parents don't have another option (besides moving to a private school or homeschooling). I posted a question earlier wondering about required public school uniforms. I only saw one response to my question and that poster thought there is a difference between requiring a haircut and requiring uniforms. I consider mandatory uniforms in public schools to be more intrusive than a haircut policy. With uniforms, you lose virtually all individuality in dress AND you are mandating costs in a "free" public school system. With the growing trend of required uniforms in public schools, particularly urban ones, we may hear more cases of families rebelling against public school dress codes.