Christine
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- Joined
- Aug 31, 1999
I think this is great advice if you're talking about a social circle type situation, like coworkers or just friends. It's not exactly the same when you're talking about family. Generally you're not concerned about being the popular or most liked in that situation.
Except I use my advice with my family! I just use the term "popular" loosely. If you ensure that you put some guiderails in with certain family members, I assure you that your familial popularity will decrease in some instances.