I just want to say I lost both my parents to cancer in the early 80s. my mom was 49 and my dad was 51. I was 15 and 17. both non smokers and non drinkers.
after we buried my dad,I turned to things to kill the pain. by the grace of god, I met my wife. we were 19 and got the help I needed.with her support, I have been clean for 30 years.
I did continue to smoke cigarettes. I smoked 2 1/2 packs per day. when my daughter was born 12 years later, after I left the hospital after her delivery, I tossed my pack and lighter out the window of my car while on the interstate.most likely sleep deprived but I was in tears. I didn't want her to feel the same pain I lived with. i learned at a young age the answers are not at the bottom of that bottle or in that pipe.
its easy to say just stop!!! don't eat that, don't drink that, don't smoke that,dont shoot that in your arm. its an illness!!!.i guess that's where ignorance comes in. like any life threating illness, its a fight. its a day to day struggle.
stopping smoking was one of the hardest things I ever had to do. but i did it!! i don't harp on smokers, trust me, i know what its like. ive been there. to this day i am smoke free, drug free and will never go back!!!
i have enjoyed the last thirty years. i don't remember the 5 years before that.
i feel sorry for the name callers. its easy just to call someone a name. they don't understand addiction, like other topics, they just call you a name and off they go. i realize this thread wasn't for addiction but that's what smoking is, an illness. some cant and wont stop. we are making progress!!! every year more and more people stop!!! don't be to hard on them!!!!
do yourself the biggest favor you can do for someone, give them hug!!!! it just may keep someone away from that bottle,pipe or needle!!!